tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-50632753194341125882024-03-27T19:52:32.490-04:00Fearlessly Just MeMarcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.comBlogger190125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-46840564387380056452023-01-01T17:37:00.002-05:002023-01-01T17:37:14.074-05:00New Year: Let's Focus on the Gains, Not the Losses!<h3 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">"You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along." ~ Eleanor Roosevelt</span></h3><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6MqCwbdfqH0hB0WfDo-qItrgwuKuQM2zOX50rJnBciQm2CwWwWb4N0tXQoIc7vI6CFjxNXltapoJsSvPx_MDcUg0GSOyLZ-M1PmRXh1tKrPtSN2dfTyZEGMruKPuKjJ4DWdu86CU-yid0Hi46H1oO7Z029wIzecUDcVMpPx-r6pL--E3VyTH678hG/s4095/95326788.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4095" data-original-width="2730" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6MqCwbdfqH0hB0WfDo-qItrgwuKuQM2zOX50rJnBciQm2CwWwWb4N0tXQoIc7vI6CFjxNXltapoJsSvPx_MDcUg0GSOyLZ-M1PmRXh1tKrPtSN2dfTyZEGMruKPuKjJ4DWdu86CU-yid0Hi46H1oO7Z029wIzecUDcVMpPx-r6pL--E3VyTH678hG/s16000/95326788.jpg" /></a></div><br /><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">Happy New Year, my favorite people! Now that the holidays are over and a new year is upon us, we can exhale and move forward. The holidays are tough for a lot of folks, me included. But we made it. We're still standing. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">January is a big month for diet companies and gyms. They come at us hard with this whole 'New Year New Me' message and they make a ton of money, profitting over people buying into this notion that we have to lose weight to have a better year ahead. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">I am all for people doing what they want with their bodies and I am also a big believer in movement for ALL bodies. But I also want to stress that your body, regardless of its size and shape, is incredible NOW. Our bodies enable us to live, even when we have limited mobility and disabilities. We are still able to breathe and experience life in the best way we can. I am not here to judge because I believe we are all works of art as we are right now. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">I was reading a post on IG where the author was talking about how we focus on losing in the New Year, when we really should be focusing on gains. And that just made a lightbulb in my head turn on. I am a big believer in turning negatives into positives because changing my mindset has changed my life and gotten me thru some of the hardest moments I have ever experienced. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">So this year, I am going to focus on what I gain while giving myself grace to know that I shouldn't overload myself with a long list of what I want to do and set myself up for failure. I am training myself to slow down and focus on 1 to 2 things at a time so I can follow through and get things done. I find when I focus on a zillion things (which is how my busy brain works), I tend to not finish everything I started and it gets so frustrating. I feel defeated and then give up entirely. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">Yes, I know it's hard to believe as many people think I am someone who has my shit completely together but in all honesty, I have my moments too. I plan to create to-do lists every 3 months that are short and doable but things that I want to do and know I can follow thru on. It may be simple tasks like crocheting a dress for my niece but working on a project like that takes time, patience and consistency, which are things I want to strengthen within myself.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">The biggest lesson I learned last year was the importance of showing up for myself and others. Showing up for myself meant:</span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-family: verdana;">Being proactive in my self care, including taking care of my body physically by continuing to find a doctor that gets me and adding more joyful movement in my life to help with my lymphedema, as well as make me feel better and stronger.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: verdana;">Being my own advocate and not being afraid to speak up for myself</span></li><li><span style="font-family: verdana;">Being kind to myself and not beating myself over saying no or not doing something that I didn't feel comfortable doing (sometimes it's good to go out of your comfort zone but if you feel it's really not right, it ain't right.)</span></li><li><span style="font-family: verdana;">Listen to my gut/inner voice. It is never wrong.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: verdana;">Doing something nice for myself daily, even if it was something as simple as painting my nails, watching one of my favorite movies, giving someone an authentic compliment or holler on social media to let them know they are giving me life (lol) or even giving a hug to my 4-yr old niece Ashley and watching Paw Patrol with her. </span></li><li><span style="font-family: verdana;">The more things you do for yourself that make you happy will build your self love and make you look forward to being present for more moments to come. It will also make you feel grateful for those moments and your life. It will remind you that you do have positive things in your life that can make you happy. Gratitude is a great way to be reminded that life is not all bad.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: verdana;">Following through on things I start because it will remind me of the importance of honoring my commitments to myself and others.</span></li></ul><span style="font-family: verdana;"><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div>With showing up for others, to me it's like being in service to others. No man/woman/person is an island and warm, close relationships can make a difference. Even if you have that one person in your life, that gets you, that's enough. Show up for that person by saying Hi, I love you, I appreciate you or just being there to listen. I always say I know a lot of people but I have only a special few in my tight circle who are like my family. We're all spread out and at the beginning of Covid, I did isolate myself from everyone. I tend to be a loner but I also recognize that I need to nuture my relationships because I am grateful to them. They are worthy of me showing up for them as they do for me.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">Going into 2023, I am still working on this - I am a work in progress. What counts is that I am trying.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">I am also someone who believes in helping people, including clothing swaps and donations. I want to manifest that into larger scale things where I am reaching more folks, mainly my plus size sisters/brothers/persons over a size 3X because we are often overlooked in so many sectors that limit us in accessing things we need for everyday life. (If anyone out there wants to partner up, pls message me!)</span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><br /></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">I also want to be open to new relationships and engaging more with people but I am treading carefully since this is not my norm. Venturing into new territory is scary but I am doing it one step at a time, while giving myself grace. I have met some incredible people in my life and want to reconnect with them.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">That's all we can do for ourselves, one day at a time. We only have one life to live and after losing so many loved ones, grief and loss have taught me to appreciate my own life more. This is how I honor them... by honoring myself.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">So this year, my goals are not weight loss or being a new me. My goals are what I can gain in my life to be happier, have more peace and live in gratitude as I am right now because I am pretty awesome just as I am. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">If you want to lose weight, do you. You do what makes you truly happy. But just know that just because your outer changes, doesn't mean your inner will. You are YOU and that is an amazing thing. You just have to see that for yourself and lean into your beauty and who you are at whatever stage of your journey you're on. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">The world is always waiting for me and for you... it is up to us to take that first step and see what's out there meant for us.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">Comment or email me if you need inspiration or a quick holler. I got you! 2023, here we come!</span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSFgPBdmDKU9iwunBxsuKvmlmGlGwdpAk4wXJp7sQqKclUUDL9AShidtnzetlwJfEy-ynpIvvU5O7KlJRoKvIxV61jZ-iqQoiqVN6Qq6TYvgTcrCIo8JImc9cQVhlfy-d2e2ItMW3pSFo3NQvfGdobiCFY-_nRrD9tVGTARJD0MIoOw0gYioqdlAKl/s410/philly0021%20(1).JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="410" data-original-width="402" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSFgPBdmDKU9iwunBxsuKvmlmGlGwdpAk4wXJp7sQqKclUUDL9AShidtnzetlwJfEy-ynpIvvU5O7KlJRoKvIxV61jZ-iqQoiqVN6Qq6TYvgTcrCIo8JImc9cQVhlfy-d2e2ItMW3pSFo3NQvfGdobiCFY-_nRrD9tVGTARJD0MIoOw0gYioqdlAKl/s16000/philly0021%20(1).JPG" /></a></div><br /><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: verdana;">~ Marcy xo</span></div>Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-4722047684838085702022-11-28T14:28:00.006-05:002022-11-28T14:33:41.819-05:00Shop Small: 10 Plus Size Brands to Shop on Cyber Monday That Offer Above a Size 3X<span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEia7EgKePj6WCBRP68Yt2Tal91jMw55upoj6WOa6mIha2YyBoUSQhSlEPoW_QXtcW5XKhqmDzWAu9W1C1-YhWDVjosWQco8CThPyzS7Cq-MTxBDD2P1stNj7mNROEVjnG_82qyFCvw4LiUd3mtohSLi4MJHGsU93OnSHMcMO-8R8R9ZfPSQArZrH7j5/s1500/Marcy%20-%20Body%20Love.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1500" data-original-width="1111" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEia7EgKePj6WCBRP68Yt2Tal91jMw55upoj6WOa6mIha2YyBoUSQhSlEPoW_QXtcW5XKhqmDzWAu9W1C1-YhWDVjosWQco8CThPyzS7Cq-MTxBDD2P1stNj7mNROEVjnG_82qyFCvw4LiUd3mtohSLi4MJHGsU93OnSHMcMO-8R8R9ZfPSQArZrH7j5/w474-h640/Marcy%20-%20Body%20Love.jpg" width="474" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">I'm wearing the Francesca Dress in Magenta from Igigi - <a href="https://www.igigi.com/collections/all/products/plus-size-francesca-dress?variant=27738952849" target="_blank">LINK</a></span></td><td class="tr-caption"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">I'm a big supporter of small businesses and indie designers. These folks have kept me looking fly for many years when big brands were not offering my size or styles that I liked. Small businesses always put a personal touch into their brands, including being accessible from a customer service aspect and even including a thank you card in your package.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">There are so many lists out there of Cyber Monday sales that include major brands and I wanted to give some shine to small businesses today because Small Business Saturday was not enough. Here's 10 plus size brands that go that extra mile in offering an extended size range so those of us over a size 3X can look cute and feel cute too!</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">1. <b><a href="https://www.rcapubliclabel.com/" target="_blank">Renee Cafaro Atelier | Public Label</a></b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>What they offer</u>: Luxury clothing that doesn't break the bank. And their fit is on point.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Sizes</u>: 16 to 32 and custom</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: 30% Off Entire Order* with code <b>CYBER</b> – this includes pre-order/made to order items.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Fine Print</u>: Does not apply to gift cards or Renee Cafaro Atelier Couture requests. Valid until Nov 29, 11:59pm EST</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>LINK</u>: <a href="https://www.rcapubliclabel.com/">https://www.rcapubliclabel.com/</a></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">2. <b><a href="https://www.igigi.com/" target="_blank">Igigi</a></b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>What they offer</u>: Igigi has been around for YEARS and is the place to go when you are looking for a dress for any occasion. They now offer custom, not just by measurements, but also in length, sleeves and more.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Sizes</u>: 12 to 32 and custom</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: 20% off off select styles with code <b>BLACKFRIDAY</b> through Wednesday, December 1, 2022</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>LINK</u>: <a href="https://www.igigi.com/collections/all?utm_source=sendinblue&utm_campaign=BF%20igigi&utm_medium=email">https://www.igigi.com/</a></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">3. <a href="https://wray.nyc" target="_blank"><b>Wray</b></a></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>What they offer</u>: fine art inspired clothing line that are focused on both form and function. Every garment is created ethically at fair-trade operations in India, Hong Kong, Shanghai, and Peru.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Sizes</u>: XXS to 6XL</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: 25% off your purchase with code <b>BLACKFRIDAY</b> at checkout.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>LINK</u>: <a href="https://wray.nyc/collections/black-friday">https://wray.nyc/collections/black-friday</a></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">4. <a href="https://proudmaryfashion.com/" target="_blank"><b>Proud Mary Fashion</b></a></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>What they offer</u>: Fat-friendly message tees that make a statement, vintage and original clothing and accessories</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Sizes</u>: 1X to 5X</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: 20% off sitewide with code <b>BFCM22</b> at checkout.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>LINK</u>: <a href="https://proudmaryfashion.com/">https://proudmaryfashion.com/</a></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">5. <b><a href="https://www.heymavens.com/" target="_blank">Hey Mavens</a></b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>What they offer</u>: Intimates and sleepwear in cute colors, luxe fabrics (think lace and velvet) and quirky prints</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Sizes</u>: XXS to 10XL</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: 25% off orders $75 or more + get free shipping on every flat rate domestic order with code <b>BFSHIP </b>at checkout.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>LINK</u>: <a href="https://www.heymavens.com/">https://www.heymavens.com/</a></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">6. <b><a href="https://www.cestd.com/" target="_blank">C’EST D</a></b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>What they offer</u>: Unique, style-forward clothing with the mission of unapologetically designing fashion for all types of bodies and ultimately providing ‘choices’ that are missing right now in fashion industry</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Sizes</u>: XXS to 6XL</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: 20% off sitewide + free shipping on orders of $180 and more. No code needed. Prices reflect the 20% off.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>LINK</u>: <a href="https://www.cestd.com/">https://www.cestd.com/</a></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">7. <b><a href="https://loudbodies.com" target="_blank">Loud Bodies</a></b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>What they offer</u>: Stylish and comfortable clothing that’s ethically produced and sustainable</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Sizes</u>: XXS to 10XL</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: Up to 50% off sitewide. No code needed. Prices reflect discount.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>LINK</u>: <a href="https://loudbodies.com/sale/">https://loudbodies.com/sale/</a></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">8. <b><a href="https://nerecina.com/" target="_blank">Nerecina</a></b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>What they offer</u>: Made-to-order, sustainably produced formalwear that makes a statement</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Sizes</u>: Custom</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: Cyber Weekend Sale: 25% OFF everything! Automatic discount at checkout, no code needed.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>LINK</u>: <a href="https://nerecina.com/">https://nerecina.com/</a></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">9. <b><a href="https://superfithero.com/" target="_blank">Superfit Hero</a></b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>What they offer</u>: premium activewear with a focus on making products with high quality materials, style, fit and functionality</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Sizes</u>: L to 7X</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: 20% off your purchase with code BF20 + free shipping on orders $100+ and free returns</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>LINK</u>: <a href="https://superfithero.com/">https://superfithero.com/</a></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">10. <b><a href="https://www.alpinecurves.com/default.asp" target="_blank">Alpine Curves</a></b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>What they offer</u>: Plus size clothing and gear that fit the everyday woman for her outdoor lifestyle. (INCLUDING THE CUTEST SKI STUFF)</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Sizes</u>: 1X to 6X</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: $10 off $50, $15 off $75, $25 off $100, $50 off $200. No code necessary. Discount applied at checkout. Free shipping on all orders of $99 or more.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>LINK</u>: <a href="https://www.alpinecurves.com/default.asp">https://www.alpinecurves.com/default.asp</a></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">What are some of your favorite small plus size clothing brands and indie designers that offer above a size 3X? Please let me know in the comments below!</span></p><div><br /></div>Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-104898595439379402022-11-27T14:59:00.005-05:002022-11-27T15:26:42.880-05:0010 Black Friday / Cyber Monday 2022 Sneaker Deals That You Need to Check Out<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjmRD6T-jvtbZc_jHMbAhBPZlVUw2QvkyYJrZmAPVXFwGBynLFczTErwM-_VVAs7TiXLANhbh5d_WmEt_09LKvQSB9uiam7r-NdvdWW5Mh39B-BzZ08R_67MN7a5tp3Ib5TfqrcGna-FcKrMtkpdrVocAGT6y3I3ZWgqnNtRlpkAge7ul9AxOZ29UPc/s600/Adidas%20CCC%20image1.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><img border="0" data-original-height="400" data-original-width="600" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjmRD6T-jvtbZc_jHMbAhBPZlVUw2QvkyYJrZmAPVXFwGBynLFczTErwM-_VVAs7TiXLANhbh5d_WmEt_09LKvQSB9uiam7r-NdvdWW5Mh39B-BzZ08R_67MN7a5tp3Ib5TfqrcGna-FcKrMtkpdrVocAGT6y3I3ZWgqnNtRlpkAge7ul9AxOZ29UPc/s16000/Adidas%20CCC%20image1.jpg" /></span></a></div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">It's my favorite time of the year! I live by the rule, "Don't pay regular price" and I mean it. Even if an item is not on sale, I will sign up for emails, texts, ravens... I don't care. I want that welcome 15% - 20% off deal. I live to be ballin' on a budget. This is why my brother always told me I was the richest broke person he knew, lol. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">So many people ask me where to shop and what deals are out there so I decided to put together a list of my must-have sneaker sales during this hot deal weekend so you can clear out your Christmas gift list and treat yourself to something dope. I know I did!!!! (Yeah, I went a little crazy and have 4 pairs of sneakers coming my way... YIKES!) But I got some great deals and still managed to stay under my budget. With that said, get ready to shop! </span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Pls note, I will update this tomorrow to include any Cyber Monday deals (if they have changed - brands tend to just extend the current deal and tack on a little extra 10% or free gift on Cyber Monday).</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">#1: <b><a href="https://www.fila.com/us" target="_blank">FILA</a></b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Promo: 50% off sitewide. So this means some styles are like $30. Yes!!!! If you love chunky sneakers and colorful kicks, this is a deal not to be missed. No code needed. It's applied to the price already.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: x-small;"><i><u><br /></u></i></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: x-small;"><i><u>The Fine Print</u>: Valid 11/25/22 12:00am EST through 11/29/22 3:15am EST only on FILA.com. Discount is shown on category & product pages for eligible styles and will be automatically applied at checkout. Cannot be combined with any other discount or promotional pricing. All purchases are FINAL SALE and not eligible for return.</i></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">My Pick (yes, I bought these in the Coral Blush / Primrose Pink / White colorway, lol):</span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieFT4lu4IBP9hBEhdk-NeZPkJepSvuVbXkt44OA5lt-jvv8DNBK9AMP5H5WekMD7N2ayMyKgFY1ZZv5ozpelEv7YFJTy5_-eghndI55_TQqlkKCRqGsj5mj-AvybsYX_hhtA58rqJImN6Abl6-DxxkV1K3HbGAaCWRqvFQVTNe6xqrcW0afNzZDEFE/s1107/FILA%20sneakers1.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><img border="0" data-original-height="630" data-original-width="1107" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieFT4lu4IBP9hBEhdk-NeZPkJepSvuVbXkt44OA5lt-jvv8DNBK9AMP5H5WekMD7N2ayMyKgFY1ZZv5ozpelEv7YFJTy5_-eghndI55_TQqlkKCRqGsj5mj-AvybsYX_hhtA58rqJImN6Abl6-DxxkV1K3HbGAaCWRqvFQVTNe6xqrcW0afNzZDEFE/s16000/FILA%20sneakers1.jpg" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Women's Disruptor 2 Exp, Was $75, NOW $37.50 - <b><a href="https://www.fila.com/womens-disruptor-2-exp/5XM01765.html" target="_blank">LINK</a></b></span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">2: <b><a href="https://www.ebay.com/sme/adidas_official/Extra-50-off-coupon-View-code/so.html?_seedid=155087926964&_soffType=CodedCouponOffer&_soffid=10917515605&_trksid=p2047675.m2197" target="_blank">adidas</a></b></span><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Did you know that adidas has a store on <a href="https://www.ebay.com/sme/adidas_official/Extra-50-off-coupon-View-code/so.html?_seedid=155087926964&_soffType=CodedCouponOffer&_soffid=10917515605&_trksid=p2047675.m2197" target="_blank">eBay</a>? And sometimes you get better deals there, which I found out this weekend. They are offering 50% off select items and the category is pretty vast. I bought a $75 track suit for my cousin for $25!!!! And scored these Stella McCarthy kicks I have been eyeing for a minute. They retailed at $250 and I got them for $75. I almost fainted. Best part? At checkout, eBay offered me an additional 20% thru their own deal on brands!!!! YESSSSS! Being able to stack coupons is rare so Merry Christmas to meeee!</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Code: <b>50OFFADI </b>- it is automatically applied at checkout but just in case you have to enter it.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><i style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>The fine print:</u> Expires November 28, 2022. Max discount $1,000. Limit one use per transaction (or cart) while supplies last. (So you can use it on more than 1 order, if you decide to go back before the promo is over!!!)</span></i></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br />Pls note: the regular <a href="https://www.adidas.com/us" target="_blank">adidas site</a> is offering 40% off sale and full price items with code <b>CYBER</b> at checkout.</span></div><div><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">3: <b><a href="https://www.vans.com/en-us/shoes-c00081?icn=promobar_20offshoes" target="_blank">Vans</a></b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;">I found out recently that Vans offers <a href="https://www.vans.com/en-us/categories/wides-c5655?icn=subnav" target="_blank">wide width sneakers</a> and you can create <a href="https://www.vans.com/en-us/customs?customsFilter=shoes" target="_blank">custom kicks</a> and clothing. So this deal is extra meaningful for those like me with wide feet who like unique shoes. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: $20 off all shoes + 40% off all apparel and accessories. Not a deep deal on shoes but still meaningful, especially if you want to get some custom sneakers.</span></p><p><i><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: x-small;"><u><br /></u></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: x-small;"><u>The fine print</u>: Promo auto applied at checkout. Not valid on outlet items.</span></i></p><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">4. <b><a href="https://www.skechers.com/" target="_blank">Skechers</a></b></span></div></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Another great brand that offers <a href="https://www.skechers.com/women/shoes/?prefn1=width&prefv1=Wide" target="_blank">wide widths</a> and has some cute styles. My faves are the <a href="https://www.skechers.com/technologies/comfort-technologies/arch-fit/" target="_blank">Arch Fit</a> and <a href="https://www.skechers.com/technologies/comfort-technologies/skech-air/" target="_blank">Skech-Air</a> - so comfy and cute. Their BFCB deal is 30% off your order with code <b>BF2022</b> at checkout.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><i><span style="font-size: x-small;"><u>The fine print</u>: *Offer valid 11/25/22 through 11/27/22 on select regular priced items at www.Skechers.com. Enter code BF2022 at checkout. Not valid at other stores and websites carrying Skechers products. Offer excludes Slip Ins, Massage fit, Hyper Craze Bounce, select accessories, prior purchases, test styles, sale or clearance items, gift cards, applicable taxes, and shipping charges. Cannot be combined with other offers or promotions.</span></i> </span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">5. <a href="https://www.newbalance.com/" target="_blank"><b>New Balance</b></a></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Been in the game since 1906, as well as one of the few sneaker brands that are US-based and owned, people tend to sleep on <a href="https://www.newbalance.com/" target="_blank">New Balance</a> because they are known to be more function and comfort than style. However, they have really stepped up their game style-wise in the last few years + this brand is podiatrist-approved. Gotta be good to your feet and they will be good to you. Because I personally know some folks who are dealing with toe infections, heel issues and yellow, banged up nails right now and I don't know about you but I'm not trying to go that route!!!! They also offer up to <a href="https://www.newbalance.com/women/shoes/all-shoes/?prefn1=width&prefv1=XX-Wide%20%284E%29%7CWide%20%28D%29%7CX-Wide%20%282E%29&srule=null" target="_blank">XX-wide widths</a>. Yes!</span></div></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: 25% off shoes, 40% off clothing and accessories all Cyber Weekend.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><i><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: x-small;"><u>The fine print</u>: Offer valid on newbalance.com from November 24, 2022 through November 29, 2022. Discount applied in cart. Exclusions apply. Can't be applied to previous purchases or purchase of gift cards and cannot be redeemed for cash or used in combination with any other offer. </span></i></div><div><i><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></i></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">My pick: </span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhafKyQnRRioLUeEcRj5XCqkOcvEOf-fYJ5uvqFezX2jRx34cOcyW5IARJ2s9Jk_i7TAKl8716zCLyAhm4te7ANavOxMq-VufBB5Og8j8n7uyf3CxYxMaXX4Ar0Zizl4SjAHWcgywsQce3EfZyb7UcvQJC61bt1BsM-LYY88sL6hST5RktHZKottnI-/s774/New%20Balance%20sneakers1.PNG" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><img border="0" data-original-height="467" data-original-width="774" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhafKyQnRRioLUeEcRj5XCqkOcvEOf-fYJ5uvqFezX2jRx34cOcyW5IARJ2s9Jk_i7TAKl8716zCLyAhm4te7ANavOxMq-VufBB5Og8j8n7uyf3CxYxMaXX4Ar0Zizl4SjAHWcgywsQce3EfZyb7UcvQJC61bt1BsM-LYY88sL6hST5RktHZKottnI-/s16000/New%20Balance%20sneakers1.PNG" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Fresh Foam 680v7, WAS $79.99, NOW $59.99 - 25% off at checkout<br />FINAL PRICE: $44.99 + free ship (available in reg and wide widths, sizes 5 to 12 in 3 colorways) <b><a href="https://www.newbalance.com/pd/fresh-foam-680v7/W680CB7-D-09.html" target="_blank">LINK</a></b></span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">6. <b><a href="https://www.nike.com/" target="_blank">Nike</a></b>:</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">I'll be honest, I'm not much of a Nike fan because I have always found their sneakers to be too narrow for me. But I wanted to include them on this list as I know many folks love the brand. I will admit the custom <a href="https://www.nike.com/nike-by-you" target="_blank">Nike by You</a> feature has me intrigued but I am not sold on the fit to the point of spending money on a pair. For me, fit is everything because I take care of my feet. Under Men's, they have <a href="https://www.nike.com/w/mens-shoes-7n28vz9yyj2znik1zy7ok" target="_blank">19 styles in wide and extra-wide</a> but they are not cute to me AT ALL, lol.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: 25% off select styles that are up to 60% off <a href="https://www.nike.com/w/cyber-monday-pqs2" target="_blank">here</a>. Enter code <b>CYBER</b> at checkout. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">7. <b><a href="https://us.puma.com/us/en" target="_blank">Puma</a></b></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">I'm a fan but sometimes I get frustrated as a shopper because Puma will drop a new collection right on a sale day but then say it's excluded from the sale while promoting it alongside the sale. Not cool. Case in point, they just dropped their <a href="https://us.puma.com/us/en/collaborations-partnerships-paw-patrol" target="_blank">Paw Patrol collection</a> and I was ready to buy some stuff for my niece Ashley for Christmas. But everything is not only regular price but excluded from the promo. No, thank you. I will wait.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">On the upside, they have many styles under $50 that are cute. If you have wide feet, I suggest avoiding the leather styles and going for the suede ones. Puma tends to have a narrow fit but I have been able to wear the suede styles comfortably with a wide foot.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: Up to 50% off + extra 30% off with code <b>CHEER</b> at checkout <a href="https://us.puma.com/us/en/women/shop-all-womens?productdivName=Footwear" target="_blank">here</a>.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">8. <a href="https://www.converse.com/" target="_blank"><b>Converse</b></a></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Another brand I find narrow so I don't really wear them often. But my niece Angel is a fan. I just recently learned they offer a <a href="https://www.converse.com/shop/custom-wide-width-shoes" target="_blank">wide width custom option</a>, which has me intrigued. I'm not completed convinced enough to buy a pair but will report back if I do.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: Extra 40% off sale on selected styles with code <b>CYBERWEEK</b> at checkout. Ends 11/28/22 at 2:59AM EST.</span></div></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">9. <b><a href="https://www.asics.com/us/en-us/" target="_blank">Asics</a></b></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Asics are so comfy and they are my top pick for sneakers to wear while I am exercising or doing anything active-related, including long walks. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Promo: 30% off almost everything with code <b>CYBER</b> at checkout.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Added bonus: Make a purchase anytime between 10/1 and 12/21 in-store or online, and receive a discount code on 12/22 to save $20 on any purchase of $75 or more, in-store or online. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">10. <b><a href="https://www.reebok.com/us" target="_blank">Reebok</a></b></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">I have been meaning to try the Cardi B styles because they are CUTE. While they are excluded from promotions, they are marked down 40% AND the clothing goes up to a size 4X. Color me shocked.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Promo: 45% off full price styles + an extra 50% off sale styles. Use code <b>BLACKFRIDAY</b> at checkout.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">BUT WAIT....</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">For Cyber Monday, they will be offering up 50% off reg priced items and 60% off sale items with code <b>CYBERMONDAY</b> and you can shop now if you sign up for their Reebok Unlocked program <a href="https://www.reebok.com/us/cyber_monday" target="_blank">here</a>.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">So if I were you, I'd wait until tomorrow to shop or sign up for their Unlocked program! </span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">My pick (my old school fave):</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGDHRiO8nNexzaSYgBYF80gCYioxWQrhAJTzeOz3BAoPZhhlA6TPksynwpZO1kd2aRHnYzwUGvno6DYQZxCsM214-KHDKafh9JE8xcEkMGcrKa8pI-Khq71MDdfoD0Bw3e95if6E9fbb1sK5jiM7a7GTKcNFwO5K4QOEWjIq-y6yRGCxDWKywPOBg4/s803/Reebok%20high%20top1.PNG" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><img border="0" data-original-height="522" data-original-width="803" height="208" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGDHRiO8nNexzaSYgBYF80gCYioxWQrhAJTzeOz3BAoPZhhlA6TPksynwpZO1kd2aRHnYzwUGvno6DYQZxCsM214-KHDKafh9JE8xcEkMGcrKa8pI-Khq71MDdfoD0Bw3e95if6E9fbb1sK5jiM7a7GTKcNFwO5K4QOEWjIq-y6yRGCxDWKywPOBg4/s320/Reebok%20high%20top1.PNG" width="320" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Freestyle Hi Women's Shoes (8 colorways avail), WAS $85, NOW $42.50 (after 50% off) <b><a href="https://www.reebok.com/us/freestyle-hi-women-s-shoes/GY4817.html?forceSelSize=GY4817_590" target="_blank">LINK</a></b> </span></td></tr></tbody></table><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><h3 style="text-align: left;"><u><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Notable mentions:</span></u></h3><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><b><a href="https://www.asos.com/us/women/ctas/core-promos/up-to-80-off/cat/?cid=50711&ctaref=hp%7Cww%7Cpromo%7Cbanner%7C1%7Cedit%7Cblackfridayrandomcode&currentpricerange=0-360&refine=attribute_1047:8606" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">ASOS</span></a></b></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><a href="https://www.asos.com/us/women/ctas/core-promos/up-to-80-off/cat/?cid=50711&ctaref=hp%7Cww%7Cpromo%7Cbanner%7C1%7Cedit%7Cblackfridayrandomcode&currentpricerange=0-360&refine=attribute_1047:8606" target="_blank">ASOS</a> sells many sneaker brands and when they have a deal, it can be used on the sneakers too! </span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: Up to 80% off markdowns + up to extra 30% off – surprise discount will be revealed at checkout. Enter code <b>ALLIN</b> at checkout to receive discount. Ends 2am EST on November 28, 2022.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">My pick: </span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvh8oVwkN0xpxzR7XazVVbUQzijgj0mfmf0vDG41sBnA7H3U_-4YTORbRXHjr-DpY-puRTrMke0pHqkePPeaIrjsr2dHLUBHCrGylJuYtLdOW2HQkTVgEnnyY1gMGEuzZah7NSuu6eQT4KpITpXv1kWfqGu_izNhhmiBtr2Y8o_VdUrg3fXkjel2KP/s784/ASOS%20adidas%20sneakers1.PNG" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><img border="0" data-original-height="784" data-original-width="638" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvh8oVwkN0xpxzR7XazVVbUQzijgj0mfmf0vDG41sBnA7H3U_-4YTORbRXHjr-DpY-puRTrMke0pHqkePPeaIrjsr2dHLUBHCrGylJuYtLdOW2HQkTVgEnnyY1gMGEuzZah7NSuu6eQT4KpITpXv1kWfqGu_izNhhmiBtr2Y8o_VdUrg3fXkjel2KP/s320/ASOS%20adidas%20sneakers1.PNG" width="260" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">adidas Originals Forum Bonega sneakers (white with marble print colorway), WAS $120, NOW $60 + your surprise discount at checkout. <b><a href="https://www.asos.com/us/adidas-originals/adidas-originals-forum-bonega-sneakers-in-white-with-marble-print/prd/203117168?clr=white&colourWayId=203117172&SearchQuery=adidas" target="_blank">LINK</a></b></span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span><div><b><a href="https://www.solestop.com/" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: helvetica;">Solestop</span></a></b></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">I discovered <a href="https://www.solestop.com/collections/new" target="_blank">Solestop</a> on a sneaker blog in 2020 and have been a loyal customer ever since. The Canadian-based company offers a vast selection of brands such as ASICS, New Balance, Hoka, Vans and adidas. Their prices are great and they ship fast. They also have hard-to-find styles, which is great for sneakerheads looking for certain styles that may be sold out in US. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><u>Promo</u>: Extra 40% off select regular priced items <a href="https://www.solestop.com/collections/2022-black-friday-sale" target="_blank">here</a> and extra 20% off sale items <a href="https://www.solestop.com/collections/sale-all" target="_blank">here</a>. Code <b>BF2022</b>.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;">So that's my roundup! Did I forget to mention your fave brand? Pls let me know in the comments and I will find out what deals are out there. I got you! Happy shopping!</span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span></div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQ5acn4W4St1Ab_Wmp0qIvPYN-qiP0fiq2-EurDVgRvHWiR888AYKPfxXIn69zeLvN0ocvli0_zfv6UmNX6jAWUviQl0QANJbtQ26N0DY9H7z-mCjv8NnSuWSHh_SiW0_nu7agtVTSBoRPFH155WF2tSxuf3VGLHTHDO9nbSOgtgZQBN9U8iSRZ9im/s1500/BFCM%20Pin%20Image2.gif" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1500" data-original-width="1000" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQ5acn4W4St1Ab_Wmp0qIvPYN-qiP0fiq2-EurDVgRvHWiR888AYKPfxXIn69zeLvN0ocvli0_zfv6UmNX6jAWUviQl0QANJbtQ26N0DY9H7z-mCjv8NnSuWSHh_SiW0_nu7agtVTSBoRPFH155WF2tSxuf3VGLHTHDO9nbSOgtgZQBN9U8iSRZ9im/w267-h400/BFCM%20Pin%20Image2.gif" width="267" /></span></a></div><span style="font-family: helvetica;"><br /></span><div><br /></div>Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-14018871739384860322022-09-04T14:03:00.007-04:002022-11-21T10:03:06.093-05:00How Traveling Solo Helped Me Be More Confident and Fearless<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;"> “If you make friends with yourself, you will never be alone.” – Maxwell Maltz</span></h2><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Recently, I checked something off my bucket list. I booked myself a room on the </span><a href="https://www.cunard.com/en-us/cruise-destinations/transatlantic-cruises" style="font-family: arial;" target="_blank">Queen Mary 2 transatlantic cruise liner</a><span style="font-family: arial;">, going Westbound from Southampton, UK to NYC for next May. It'll be my first time on a cruise and of course, I had to go BIG.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLTQnHsxtArHJ9j0LeuBJq-SJuf0D8bXsPl0hNtycVm7Xocw4i17MxCwecHqpjUy0-mPZz9wUv0jVwC5wLznQ4_1e5x2HUJNjdExmR5VUnvPVMGYUZ83E4BwMrptsW-6qlbYg0h_zHr_TueputKUlohMvOt95vSa-v0fKdQhSMHzQ4r3h-EhCE-Opd/s1875/Catch%20Flights%20Not%20Feelings1.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1875" data-original-width="1250" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLTQnHsxtArHJ9j0LeuBJq-SJuf0D8bXsPl0hNtycVm7Xocw4i17MxCwecHqpjUy0-mPZz9wUv0jVwC5wLznQ4_1e5x2HUJNjdExmR5VUnvPVMGYUZ83E4BwMrptsW-6qlbYg0h_zHr_TueputKUlohMvOt95vSa-v0fKdQhSMHzQ4r3h-EhCE-Opd/s16000/Catch%20Flights%20Not%20Feelings1.jpg" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">My attitude now - tee from Fashion to Figure (old)</span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;">As someone who has spent most of her life more single than boo-ed up, I could never get on a cruise because single supplements were out of my budget. All my friends have significant others and I am always the odd one out. Thankfully <a href="https://www.cunard.com/en-us" target="_blank">Cunard</a>, who owns the QM2, recently added <a href="https://www.cunard.com/en-us/the-cunard-experience/staterooms-and-suites" target="_blank">single rooms</a> to the ship and the price is comparable to a double occupancy room. They're also very accommodating to solo travelers and will give you tailored itineraries daily, offering you the choice to go at it alone or mingle with other guests at meals and activities. Go Cunard! Read more <b><a href="https://www.cunard.com/en-us/the-cunard-experience/solo-travellers" target="_blank">here</a></b>.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXtXdaHjJ-Mam7_YIKmTHZDSSLCZI7hkGHFTOoidNq0Go4E4_E3JvXDWKaT1d3tv_-1Sgsd02Ov4PByN1Ji3b90TTvMsEtl4Ve7-jh5nOJO4WVx97CPwryqppFTJbPHmrTF9PmuUyuVLRs43dsxLO6q5YH2JTyNB65K1EpOd-u1h1uzoUmhrW5Y4Qj/s1480/qe-single-oceanview-2880x1047.jpg.image.1480.538.high.webp" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="538" data-original-width="1480" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXtXdaHjJ-Mam7_YIKmTHZDSSLCZI7hkGHFTOoidNq0Go4E4_E3JvXDWKaT1d3tv_-1Sgsd02Ov4PByN1Ji3b90TTvMsEtl4Ve7-jh5nOJO4WVx97CPwryqppFTJbPHmrTF9PmuUyuVLRs43dsxLO6q5YH2JTyNB65K1EpOd-u1h1uzoUmhrW5Y4Qj/s16000/qe-single-oceanview-2880x1047.jpg.image.1480.538.high.webp" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">The Britannia Single Oceanview Room, which I booked - Photo: <a href="https://www.cunard.com/en-us/the-cunard-experience/staterooms-and-suites" target="_blank">Cunard</a></span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Traveling solo is actually something that I love doing. It's just something empowering about going somewhere by yourself and having that freedom to do things on your time. You get to do what you want, when you want at where you want. There's places I want to go to that my friends have no interest in visiting such as the <a href="https://explore.quarkexpeditions.com/blog/can-i-travel-to-antarctica" target="_blank">Antarctic Peninsula</a> and <a href="https://worldlyadventurer.com/visit-easter-island-chile/" target="_blank">Easter Island</a>. </span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiz0l0_-NjYDMA4vQ6q8yrV6DA5h5pbmiG5gb3q4O0gp5WymHSzai2G71yiSTL_gwWvXZc9S_1yMF3tUBYu_w9y0m0mI5Y8Nuj-iuSF-Sx9QVWAtKBeg9nF0NCZ_ULcC7ygBsub0WV6YjRjNDCAAFI5Xt52ocDagfpONzWYEu8bGYb0jo4nSIlqVYuM/s1080/Cali%20Dreaming%20pic.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiz0l0_-NjYDMA4vQ6q8yrV6DA5h5pbmiG5gb3q4O0gp5WymHSzai2G71yiSTL_gwWvXZc9S_1yMF3tUBYu_w9y0m0mI5Y8Nuj-iuSF-Sx9QVWAtKBeg9nF0NCZ_ULcC7ygBsub0WV6YjRjNDCAAFI5Xt52ocDagfpONzWYEu8bGYb0jo4nSIlqVYuM/s16000/Cali%20Dreaming%20pic.jpg" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">First time showing off my upper arms in Los Angeles - <a href="https://ladreaming.com/guidetola/top-murals-los-angeles-california-offer/#:~:text=The%20California%20Dreaming%20wall%20is,Willow%20Street%20Los%20Angeles%2090013." target="_blank">California Dreaming Mural</a></span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;">But as someone who suffers from generalized anxiety disorder, traveling solo has pushed me beyond my self-imposed limits. Sometimes I win and sometimes I don't. But it has not stopped me from traveling. I have learned to not let my anxiety limit me in seeing the world. I also learned that traveling my way may look different but it is still okay.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8TYVpzXqR8-SQapxtp-VMe7ThJvqmkilQaPLRb_hzkN1IzUo0HUF7wAtZi5uPToM9p_jn-TOrPoPKSKF9IlLNsI4YHTbaDBJUzapZAy_7DUR9AbfVd9-qur2U-uX7pckEhKzaFG3Oov3W05iEx1nHfO5pfhAQkDROPvB9slTPAOzY9qcXp7ZLx_hy/s942/Martinique%201998-1.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="598" data-original-width="942" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8TYVpzXqR8-SQapxtp-VMe7ThJvqmkilQaPLRb_hzkN1IzUo0HUF7wAtZi5uPToM9p_jn-TOrPoPKSKF9IlLNsI4YHTbaDBJUzapZAy_7DUR9AbfVd9-qur2U-uX7pckEhKzaFG3Oov3W05iEx1nHfO5pfhAQkDROPvB9slTPAOzY9qcXp7ZLx_hy/s16000/Martinique%201998-1.jpg" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">My first solo trip in 1998 - <a href="https://www.clubmed.us/r/buccaneer-s-creek/y" target="_blank">Martinique</a></span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;">What I mean by that is I travel at my own pace and don't feel like I have to adhere to a certain schedule or see certain places because everyone else has. As the saying goes, comparison is the thief of joy. It's so easy to get caught up in the word of social media and feel that FOMO. But you have to ask yourself, is it what you truly want? Because in all honesty, you don't see the behind the scenes happenings on social media. The true things happening behind the pic or video - are they truly enjoying that moment or just trying to get the perfect pic to pretend they are? We'll never know but that's okay because what matters is what makes YOU happy. And that may look different than what your favorite influencer is doing.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuK9nITMR7j_X-rRXh81clgb2DNvVf20jeE47U6-KSz-HQG1W6ro5i2uUCn8eol37SYsAuF8yyYuNeTx4JGObPT_QitBKPQmxaRJ0bDhbUzjF4tMPnZFuBBTTGgv14ugZtRc5ThTUtWCQ8XoZNgcwFph6ueVLC-SrZmXaCDYLOR-Bc2PcmcRPZECZd/s960/Cancun%20swim1.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="720" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuK9nITMR7j_X-rRXh81clgb2DNvVf20jeE47U6-KSz-HQG1W6ro5i2uUCn8eol37SYsAuF8yyYuNeTx4JGObPT_QitBKPQmxaRJ0bDhbUzjF4tMPnZFuBBTTGgv14ugZtRc5ThTUtWCQ8XoZNgcwFph6ueVLC-SrZmXaCDYLOR-Bc2PcmcRPZECZd/s16000/Cancun%20swim1.jpg" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Cancun<br /></span></td></tr></tbody></table><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Your life is your life. And you should live every single minute the way you want. This is what traveling has taught me. For me, that also means, not feeling a way about asking for a selt belt extender or having to use a wheelchair at times at the airport if my legs hurt from my lymphedema. I tell myself, I will probably never see these people again so if they want to stare, have at it. If I see someone recording me on their phone, I start recording them and let them know that. I grew tired of feeling like it was my fault and being upset, which affected my trip. It's their problem, not mine. So I refuse to carry their burdens and let it weigh me down and affect my traveling experience.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;">I remember being in the emergency room last summer for an extreme nose bleed from getting whacked in the face by accident by a flying suitcase falling from my closet (another story, for another day, lol). And as I was getting checked in, the person at the desk yelled out to me, "How much do you weigh?" as I sat in a room full of people. I yelled back to her "That's not appropriate to ask someone that loudly in front of other people because it's my business. If you want to know, you can ask me when I am in a private room, waiting to be seen by a doctor and you can ask me, not yell at me." She actually came out and apologized, saying she didn't realize as she was rushing to check multiple people in. </span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvxg_qEQiJfEi16ooodgR35K5c8ZLvdVyGdxjsNm1G1ST4lGm5lSKs_vMw40Mc102A_X8E2OgW7DwGP9q7nNc6RzXenrJLNan4Gh1b0cF-ll6bwVVSMgi43ePyh9Hb1I95gQE-AHSiX2tIaAnLOilNzRCGR5zbDkSVa7j8gMD_rg3d_USD1buLTmvj/s604/3762_91863258244_6204517_n.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="604" data-original-width="458" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvxg_qEQiJfEi16ooodgR35K5c8ZLvdVyGdxjsNm1G1ST4lGm5lSKs_vMw40Mc102A_X8E2OgW7DwGP9q7nNc6RzXenrJLNan4Gh1b0cF-ll6bwVVSMgi43ePyh9Hb1I95gQE-AHSiX2tIaAnLOilNzRCGR5zbDkSVa7j8gMD_rg3d_USD1buLTmvj/s16000/3762_91863258244_6204517_n.jpg" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Before I climbed 268 steps to touch <a href="https://www.plm.org.hk/eng/buddha.php" target="_blank">Big Buddha - Po Lin Monastery, Lantau Island, China</a></span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Sometimes you have to let people know that it's not right to treat people a certain way. Periodt. This is something I think about when I travel and have to deal with rude flight attendants (which I am happy to say has been rare) and people acting funny if they have to sit next to me. Their problem, not mine. And I have learned to not be afraid to speak up and advocate for myself. But it does take time to build up the courage to do, I won't front. One day at a time.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTQV3AxLM5ladd-3ZqWbVWFVSpCf0KPfxZjPJYhA289kRZrGWH3TEHOayM0QLvpYjEbvDOBegKs-PnymL5uzIgFD3DOBzv4efWa04BuqNEjhcPWjbWWjbDWq2rQqKidJdkeakGBspT6YNSQw9eEjDBumrzLltE_eWMhYMiUMOxrHSoc2vcF25t7AvM/s384/4285_87670628244_2108477_n.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="288" data-original-width="384" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTQV3AxLM5ladd-3ZqWbVWFVSpCf0KPfxZjPJYhA289kRZrGWH3TEHOayM0QLvpYjEbvDOBegKs-PnymL5uzIgFD3DOBzv4efWa04BuqNEjhcPWjbWWjbDWq2rQqKidJdkeakGBspT6YNSQw9eEjDBumrzLltE_eWMhYMiUMOxrHSoc2vcF25t7AvM/s16000/4285_87670628244_2108477_n.jpg" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Venice<br /></span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /><br /></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghIGic4iCy4EgYOg8fezZa7Kjq2PpSoDLMtmCF-c22fDhdh6PE-hB-pw_Gpb2-ZR-nykLL0labmUL0UlT2pY36y2WJcpxAFP4DvP-Bx0g0MyX85lyBr9kFBkykRVfA9z6iAY5vBS-K1ujKX_NMfzckdSOjKqLo4NbgYUKWG34V0eLm2G-nI4TyY8X2/s578/379571_10150447414558245_1478841718_n.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="578" data-original-width="445" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghIGic4iCy4EgYOg8fezZa7Kjq2PpSoDLMtmCF-c22fDhdh6PE-hB-pw_Gpb2-ZR-nykLL0labmUL0UlT2pY36y2WJcpxAFP4DvP-Bx0g0MyX85lyBr9kFBkykRVfA9z6iAY5vBS-K1ujKX_NMfzckdSOjKqLo4NbgYUKWG34V0eLm2G-nI4TyY8X2/s16000/379571_10150447414558245_1478841718_n.jpg" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://en.parisinfo.com/discovering-paris/walks-in-paris/all-you-need-to-know-about-the-champs-elysees" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: arial;">Champ Élysées in Paris</span></a></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;">No, not anymore. I learned how to turn on my mental blinders and just be unbothered. It took a long time to make that a habit but being fearless doesn't happen in a day. However, if you commit to it and try one day at a time, it becomes the norm for you. You take your power back and trust me when I say, it feels so good. You feel free. You don't hear the comments or see the stares. You just live in the moment where it's just you enjoying your life. Because at the end of the day, you can't force someone not to stare or change others. But you can change how you react to the situation and how you let it affect you. This is a reminder I tell myself on the daily.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtXFf4sUtV9JGWws33bbyF93acLCgiJVtMF_ijakUOUJivJtZr0h18_7ldFWXXypB31tHXzbuSlDeHIJMlRZP0KdTSHMUyLetBiltCqhH3_OylVIMRTa7BAJCAgvaqNFfOuF1TQjL99xjVfkhsnuiSWwgu4nxN23bm9Qj0lufIC85McsVyeauzF6Om/s900/Anaheim%20street%20pic.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="563" data-original-width="900" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtXFf4sUtV9JGWws33bbyF93acLCgiJVtMF_ijakUOUJivJtZr0h18_7ldFWXXypB31tHXzbuSlDeHIJMlRZP0KdTSHMUyLetBiltCqhH3_OylVIMRTa7BAJCAgvaqNFfOuF1TQjL99xjVfkhsnuiSWwgu4nxN23bm9Qj0lufIC85McsVyeauzF6Om/s16000/Anaheim%20street%20pic.jpg" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Going out to dinner in Anaheim, California</span></td></tr></tbody></table><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;">With this way of thought, I feel like I can do anything and go anywhere. I admit, I may have days where I am anxious about leaving my hotel room by myself but I work on taking that first step out. If I don't, that's okay. I give myself grace and don't beat myself up over it. And sometimes, I may end up leaving the room later in the day or maybe just venturing out into the hotel. Any step out of the room is a win. </span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinnK7BA9MfrXpWVv6bV_-0zqTR4v6PSBkMPs9LuHbGoEYE1WLHFOCbqRys2F8e4oCGDpmdkjR50NiYA_Knmyci00y1t37VzDU-vjgzl4AUSi7STaGPkw8KPZa_MVHUlxoAxs3MTN02L25NJPU31CmWBFvs1FT-KBi_rhX4CRjliubReGjsnY0h-koI/s1102/PR%20adidas1.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1102" data-original-width="1080" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinnK7BA9MfrXpWVv6bV_-0zqTR4v6PSBkMPs9LuHbGoEYE1WLHFOCbqRys2F8e4oCGDpmdkjR50NiYA_Knmyci00y1t37VzDU-vjgzl4AUSi7STaGPkw8KPZa_MVHUlxoAxs3MTN02L25NJPU31CmWBFvs1FT-KBi_rhX4CRjliubReGjsnY0h-koI/s16000/PR%20adidas1.jpg" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">At the <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sustylexpo/?hl=en" target="_blank">Su-Style Expo</a> in San Juan, Puerto Rico</span></td></tr></tbody></table><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;">I'm not perfect. No one is perfect. But you are you. And you are worthy of living your best life and that includes traveling and seeing different places. And how that adventure looks to you is for YOU, no one else. If you never want to leave the country, that's okay. Explore your country. Explore your city, your state, your province. You do YOU. </span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVw7F9lCeQgV3aYKnrnJZIH2ffm-ytnUrDkeUcjsMyEBHMipd4gOfyeGIOEtyVzOWtt4-0_NJKLOU_6-KAJOxWkUDYqzjPOwFr7rOOOn2nvay3x8At5i_ZVq0s9FjIVfSoTE1-9bfuwSwrU-FN4CRkb4EyDIIKsjGtY9bwWUKYJzsg0toOk7hAHyzJ/s562/Grand%20Canyon%202000.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="427" data-original-width="562" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVw7F9lCeQgV3aYKnrnJZIH2ffm-ytnUrDkeUcjsMyEBHMipd4gOfyeGIOEtyVzOWtt4-0_NJKLOU_6-KAJOxWkUDYqzjPOwFr7rOOOn2nvay3x8At5i_ZVq0s9FjIVfSoTE1-9bfuwSwrU-FN4CRkb4EyDIIKsjGtY9bwWUKYJzsg0toOk7hAHyzJ/s16000/Grand%20Canyon%202000.jpg" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://grandcanyonwest.com/things-to-do/skywalk/" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: arial;">Grand Canyon SkyWalk</span></a></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;">That's what traveling solo has shown me. It has helped me to become a better person, ultimately living a better life where I continue to grow and heal.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4XXYYEIIFMAFZZ2Mm4e0VnT3PU_q5y0C-I2-VyKq0-IcSoddNnDxxJr_twXoh0S0bNOQg6DBQ7mLtNYyGJLAmNI-VzkstrF3z6K-8SXTVtVVejW7J6DnrXXZQE4mfMOXLwy_a8tR6QIpLvknPQLDhBH5GBasuAAbmRqeDNfmBqeepC03AT6Es7JKQ/s706/374153_10150461860228245_2063314768_n.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="509" data-original-width="706" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4XXYYEIIFMAFZZ2Mm4e0VnT3PU_q5y0C-I2-VyKq0-IcSoddNnDxxJr_twXoh0S0bNOQg6DBQ7mLtNYyGJLAmNI-VzkstrF3z6K-8SXTVtVVejW7J6DnrXXZQE4mfMOXLwy_a8tR6QIpLvknPQLDhBH5GBasuAAbmRqeDNfmBqeepC03AT6Es7JKQ/s16000/374153_10150461860228245_2063314768_n.jpg" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Roaming the streets of Paris</span></td></tr></tbody></table><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixYYLPEOeimumsgFxppGRgqcCdOVBujVf2ioxi-e9vCajF3gga_9rQ2JUma2je5tJ47UvH86N9B56M0lfQSkRXX_L8LJUYYwDqG2KfD-2uankBAgt3KyHI_-jXkbpbgMFeX4ZDLs4_Mu76_QDGzpPLKof5ofncx4LmE3Hm4V6rvFwfjoNS5kMlWxcN/s412/3332_83779593244_1735453_n.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="color: black;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="277" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixYYLPEOeimumsgFxppGRgqcCdOVBujVf2ioxi-e9vCajF3gga_9rQ2JUma2je5tJ47UvH86N9B56M0lfQSkRXX_L8LJUYYwDqG2KfD-2uankBAgt3KyHI_-jXkbpbgMFeX4ZDLs4_Mu76_QDGzpPLKof5ofncx4LmE3Hm4V6rvFwfjoNS5kMlWxcN/s16000/3332_83779593244_1735453_n.jpg" /></span></a></span></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Drinking at a tequila farm outside of the <a href="https://www.globalbasecamps.com/mexico-pyramids#:~:text=Discover%20the%20awe%2Dinspiring%20Aztec,known%20Aztec%20site%20in%20Mexico." target="_blank">pyramids at Teotihuacan</a> </span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;">My QM2 adventure is still 9 months away but I cannot tell you how excited I am. Am I terrified about getting on a cruise liner by myself and being at sea for 8 days straight, crossing the Atlantic. HELL YES. But will I let that stop me from going? HELL NO. Shoot, I'm already planning my outfits. And I plan to live my best life during that trip, one day at a time.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Do you love to travel or want to travel more? Where do you want to go? Let me know in the comments below or on social media. I'd love to chat about it! xo, Marcy</span></p>Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-26557988537282286722021-01-20T09:00:00.248-05:002021-04-27T00:00:40.054-04:00Kicking Off 2021 With A Major Plus Size Brand Expanding Sizes<h2 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">Why, hello 2021! </span></h2><p><span style="font-family: verdana;">While I am not relieved yet that 2020 is gone (it still felt like 2020 with all the stuff going on in the first 2 weeks of the year), a new President is in the White House today and I just found out that a major plus size brand has expanded their sizes on some items. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: verdana;">So today is one of those days where I am feeling hopeful for the world and the closets of women over a size 3X/24.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: verdana;">Without further ado... that brand is is <a href="<a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/click?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&offerid=714421.17&type=3&subid=0">Lane Bryant</a><img border="0" width="1" alt="" height="1" src="https://ad.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/show?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&bids=714421.17&type=3&subid=0" >" target="_blank">LANE BRYANT</a>.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: verdana;">Yes, you read right. <a href="<a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/click?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&offerid=714421.17&type=3&subid=0">Lane Bryant</a><img border="0" width="1" alt="" height="1" src="https://ad.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/show?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&bids=714421.17&type=3&subid=0" >" target="_blank">Lane Bryant</a> has been around since 1904 and now in the year 2021, I spied about 50ish items on their site that go up to size 38/40.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: verdana;">This was my face at first - Wuuuuuut?!?:</span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCK7k5cZ3oUoOTr-vWbNg2ioOTyWtE01JhLpwp8ErHqxcpfrARYQ9HOIc_4DHsTAWrPZYRdn7rbx68Hhi8XhTBZXJTt3epUkRLhyphenhypheng1hMKpQkQWxfocryXNtH_UNBDqM-kG4F0Tm1y5eoQ/s1366/Screenshot+%2528130%2529.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="768" data-original-width="1366" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCK7k5cZ3oUoOTr-vWbNg2ioOTyWtE01JhLpwp8ErHqxcpfrARYQ9HOIc_4DHsTAWrPZYRdn7rbx68Hhi8XhTBZXJTt3epUkRLhyphenhypheng1hMKpQkQWxfocryXNtH_UNBDqM-kG4F0Tm1y5eoQ/s16000/Screenshot+%2528130%2529.png" /></a></div><br /><p><span style="font-family: verdana;">Then I got up out of my chair...</span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLR-TTydtjfuoWeYvgGx2uKnggRRVefjo_doObmB4TmpxQdDrPmlXnPeMEnKbjzWsqiB18lfhrKsdMhn5eHw8l7GuakyX9xLow2GPuVEoP10H6hUJzcF6XZqiIPdKo5hsBjEJYBPOrX9o/s640/314388735_b894094e6a_z.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="640" data-original-width="433" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLR-TTydtjfuoWeYvgGx2uKnggRRVefjo_doObmB4TmpxQdDrPmlXnPeMEnKbjzWsqiB18lfhrKsdMhn5eHw8l7GuakyX9xLow2GPuVEoP10H6hUJzcF6XZqiIPdKo5hsBjEJYBPOrX9o/s16000/314388735_b894094e6a_z.jpg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">And walked around my living room as if it was my runway. I had to channel my inner <a href="https://www.facebook.com/people/Velvet-dAmour-Official-Fan-Page/100044579432875" target="_blank">Velvet D'Amour</a>.<br /><br /></span><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">See, I always get extra happy when I see brands offering above a size 3X and 24. I recognize that I have some size privilege as I am a 26/28 and can sometimes fit into a 3X on top and there are mega brands like Old Navy and Target that offer a 4X. </span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">But I know personally how clothing options dwindle dramatically once you are looking for sizes 4X and above. And I want ALL women to have access to clothing. It's a basic need, y'all.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">So <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/click?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&offerid=714421.17&type=3&subid=0">Lane Bryant</a><img border="0" width="1" alt="" height="1" src="https://ad.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/show?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&bids=714421.17&type=3&subid=0" target="_blank">Lane Bryant</a> offering up to a size 38/40 is MEGA! I'm still in shock! </span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">I remember a few years ago, while at a <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/click?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&offerid=714421.17&type=3&subid=0">Lane Bryant</a><img border="0" width="1" alt="" height="1" src="https://ad.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/show?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&bids=714421.17&type=3&subid=0" target="_blank">Lane Bryant</a> breakfast event at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fffweek/?hl=en" target="_blank">Full Figured Fashion Week</a>, during Q&A with top heads of the brand, I asked if they would ever expand beyond a size 26/28 and one of the execs said NO so quickly and then went on to the next question. I was stunned at the abruptness, to say the least.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">Times have changed and I AM HERE FOR IT. </span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">I will always have love for <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/click?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&offerid=714421.17&type=3&subid=0">Lane Bryant</a><img border="0" width="1" alt="" height="1" src="https://ad.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/show?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&bids=714421.17&type=3&subid=0" target="_blank">Lane Bryant</a> despite that question moment. Last year in Sept 2020, I had the honor of being a part of <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CFZ0WeyhrX1/" target="_blank">a social media campaign for Hispanic Heritage Month</a> and I do believe that with this expansion, they are making an effort. You don't see many mainstream plus size brands using women my size in campaigns so it was a big deal for me to be included.</span></p><blockquote class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CFZ0WeyhrX1/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="13" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-radius: 3px; border: 0px; box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5) 0px 0px 1px 0px, rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.15) 0px 1px 10px 0px; margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0px; width: calc(100% - 2px);"><div style="padding: 16px;"> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CFZ0WeyhrX1/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 0; padding: 0px; text-align: center; text-decoration: none; width: 100%;" target="_blank"> <div style="align-items: center; display: flex; flex-direction: row;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; 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line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0px 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CFZ0WeyhrX1/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading" style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">A post shared by Marcy Cruz (@fearlesslyjustme)</a></p></div></blockquote> <script async="" src="//www.instagram.com/embed.js"></script><p style="text-align: left;"><br /></p><div style="text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkNhTxY6UPRQNbrc5L_2zULLdpBPUgs9w4A4EkLB4ZRSgywLEwjuekyiOWfwzO0-SQ_8Ev0eA-yjfCJeX1Q0Cx3h2e020LMLc8ZMnJe-yulw4bZaYgAsTnC8LYOLGBc9fOD4BBUPCYOs8/s2048/S1903157.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: verdana;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1365" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkNhTxY6UPRQNbrc5L_2zULLdpBPUgs9w4A4EkLB4ZRSgywLEwjuekyiOWfwzO0-SQ_8Ev0eA-yjfCJeX1Q0Cx3h2e020LMLc8ZMnJe-yulw4bZaYgAsTnC8LYOLGBc9fOD4BBUPCYOs8/w427-h640/S1903157.jpeg" width="427" /></span></a></div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYMN1dfD7FSNck4uXLVZiMRI4ZEKISd_otnfyd59iDmAKU6bNIibTaAbZXu79-wNWKyk5HJ-sDOBlhcU8fubx07VpYyQ7cmeyiT2n1hOzVrESyKM9ESW4iU2JMrZax2_po5_WbJ0B18fc/s2048/S1903482.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1365" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYMN1dfD7FSNck4uXLVZiMRI4ZEKISd_otnfyd59iDmAKU6bNIibTaAbZXu79-wNWKyk5HJ-sDOBlhcU8fubx07VpYyQ7cmeyiT2n1hOzVrESyKM9ESW4iU2JMrZax2_po5_WbJ0B18fc/w427-h640/S1903482.jpeg" width="427" /></a></div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></div></span><p><span style="font-family: verdana;">With that said, I really want brands like <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/click?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&offerid=714421.17&type=3&subid=0">Lane Bryant</a><img border="0" width="1" alt="" height="1" src="https://ad.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/show?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&bids=714421.17&type=3&subid=0" target="_blank">LB</a> to know that the women above a size 3X and 24 do shop and that we support their efforts.</span></p></div><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">Here's some of my favorites that are available in up to size 38/40:</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">FULL DISCLOSURE: There is no size chart I could find on the site with the measurements for the larger sizes. So as always, shop with caution. If an item has spandex, there's stretch. If it's 100% cotton and looks woven, chances are there's no stretch. Be mindful of that when shopping.</span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: georgia; margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Fembroidered-mesh-maxi-overpiece-%2Fprd-366695%23color%2F0000085831%3Fref_page%3Dsearch" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="Lane Bryant Duster" border="0" data-original-height="603" data-original-width="458" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihgnIR-aTbksxFR4X5Zkg-vAqr5yXAl5QxcJB5k4gfLpYOC7D059e6SysA_4pwJ05il7EJY-3fMo7JdYYNcNesH8XXxzxnhA3RTDeiSYA-Rhq9FH_x1AwWGSr4q5GGEBBy3JOnoecoNbI/s16000/LB+Embroidered+Duster.png" title="Lane Bryant Duster" /></a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://bit.ly/3qDFEgW" target="_blank">Embroidered-Mesh Maxi Overpiece</a></div><span style="font-family: georgia;"><br /></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: georgia; margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRtE6MfCPXyVDbuf2LnFfqe0VwJ0P4PqdofmCzkPtMi3m7K1oGlMRHmjjbsc2_RJ60MlOPJBFkJIwB8jpB_ZXqWfFKlxbmv4Brx2Z9CGL_8E_qSSBy_6VEAgXiRYjx2MUrSL1cMbIoEcs/s604/LB+Floral+Black+Midi+Dress.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="604" data-original-width="450" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRtE6MfCPXyVDbuf2LnFfqe0VwJ0P4PqdofmCzkPtMi3m7K1oGlMRHmjjbsc2_RJ60MlOPJBFkJIwB8jpB_ZXqWfFKlxbmv4Brx2Z9CGL_8E_qSSBy_6VEAgXiRYjx2MUrSL1cMbIoEcs/s16000/LB+Floral+Black+Midi+Dress.png" /></a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://bit.ly/2XVg4HF" target="_blank">Cap-Sleeve Tie Front Midi Dress</a></div><span style="font-family: georgia;"><br /></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: georgia; margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipdQitLW67HWVgw2hDvnUKnRLd21o4UkzYml3qEPqZOQ05k_9lKPWkuMutN4sTHO2uhsIQnNWezaj7HPEaXrNAcUbtZ5ijIqZZW4Zey90Oz_U-pD8vpLmf15qDZRJmyoYEYKNLggLOA8o/s613/LB+Grey+Jumpsuit.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="613" data-original-width="470" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipdQitLW67HWVgw2hDvnUKnRLd21o4UkzYml3qEPqZOQ05k_9lKPWkuMutN4sTHO2uhsIQnNWezaj7HPEaXrNAcUbtZ5ijIqZZW4Zey90Oz_U-pD8vpLmf15qDZRJmyoYEYKNLggLOA8o/s16000/LB+Grey+Jumpsuit.png" /></a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://bit.ly/2NcRfVy" target="_blank">Softest Touch Off-The-Shoulder Jumpsuit (also available in Black)</a></div><span style="font-family: georgia;"><br /></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: georgia; margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhK8ZVNspIMl1BGrqiwIlYykU18fBIYr9x-TY4jlJz60_ZcwRMnDxMLofkBw1iZkvFvspmmRXu8dsG69A7JkCJZWF1UdNd__pLo1jgOhY4dVjX8fQdHIsnvlKfl-htugD-l5HAK_UUk4SM/s611/LB+Livi+Lace+Up+Hoodie.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="611" data-original-width="436" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhK8ZVNspIMl1BGrqiwIlYykU18fBIYr9x-TY4jlJz60_ZcwRMnDxMLofkBw1iZkvFvspmmRXu8dsG69A7JkCJZWF1UdNd__pLo1jgOhY4dVjX8fQdHIsnvlKfl-htugD-l5HAK_UUk4SM/s16000/LB+Livi+Lace+Up+Hoodie.png" /></a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Flivi-lace-up-hoodie-heathered%2Fprd-367464%23color%2F0000012166%3Fref_page%3Dsearch" target="_blank">LIVI Lace-Up Hoodie</a></div><span style="font-family: georgia;"><br /></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: georgia; margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnLJGmMwygQdjJOsNm2jw1NS4MVWMCZDYdD9036HRA7wTEoSX9Hlt-jrM-rHC-ZlELs0sbJ7A5uiXsh-LOSxTGsKeYVYYIyT3kleXte2eyTnb-0gp_JYpNvrmfRgjXM4ar1mCM3mT4Dyg/s608/LB+LIVI+Power+Legging.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="608" data-original-width="462" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnLJGmMwygQdjJOsNm2jw1NS4MVWMCZDYdD9036HRA7wTEoSX9Hlt-jrM-rHC-ZlELs0sbJ7A5uiXsh-LOSxTGsKeYVYYIyT3kleXte2eyTnb-0gp_JYpNvrmfRgjXM4ar1mCM3mT4Dyg/s16000/LB+LIVI+Power+Legging.png" /></a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Flivi-power-legging-with-smoothing-control-tech%2Fprd-212595%23color%2F0000081590%3Fref_page%3Dsearch" target="_blank">LIVI Power Legging With Smoothing Control Tech</a></div><span style="font-family: georgia;"><br /></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: georgia; margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1IMi-YhbOJORkVgJ476Ze4xBFyr424gs8pinJQ57iDso-f3mQdfhQ-5_KcDKI8Gx_929jnBtF0URDAWQu-XM5Md5SwCwVx0TVH3fDMSHlEjt3d_FFJSlX5c83faQ8gLmE8lPxHRyaiCQ/s609/LB+Livi+Tie+Dye+Hoodie.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="609" data-original-width="456" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1IMi-YhbOJORkVgJ476Ze4xBFyr424gs8pinJQ57iDso-f3mQdfhQ-5_KcDKI8Gx_929jnBtF0URDAWQu-XM5Md5SwCwVx0TVH3fDMSHlEjt3d_FFJSlX5c83faQ8gLmE8lPxHRyaiCQ/s16000/LB+Livi+Tie+Dye+Hoodie.png" /></a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Flivi-french-terry-dress-tie-dye%2Fprd-367016%23color%2F0000101163%3Fref_page%3Dsearch" target="_blank">LIVI French Terry Dress in Tie-Dye</a></div><span style="font-family: georgia;"><br /></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: georgia; margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhredPV8Urs7CI1rNv6boq55uwhup9rrd4TOdeK1aBjARvnvykDPhaTzzA-hExXGBufdOGPHWl9oKuJgi_QJAGFRwwbOxhFARZI8Br8u9U27k8naFWWb6w4kAeiKBFUvkDE1p7r1swf9-4/s602/LB+Scuba+Fit+and+Flare+Dress.png" style="margin-left: 1em; 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There is no special category or mention on the site. I simply found it via word of mouth from ShaKera of <a href="http://www.therealsamplesize.com/" target="_blank">The Real Sample Size</a> (thanks, sis!).</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">Honestly, I am excited they included some Livi items and I feel like this assortment is a good start. You get two claps and a runway walk for this new development, LB. Thank you!</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">If you are on a budget and the prices are making you cringe, simply use code <b>JANGIFT</b>. </span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">If you spend $75, you will get $25 off your order; $50 off $150 and $75 off $225 and more. 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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">With everything going on in the world at the moment surrounding the Coronavirus pandemic, social distancing has forced many people to reflect, me included.</span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">With Women's History Month and International Women's Day both happening this month, March is always a time that I reflect on the women in my life who have inspired me to be a better person. And being home, practicing social distancing has me in double reflection mode.</span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I'll be totally transparent and admit that I have been practicing social distancing for a while now, since my niece died over a year ago. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">As many of you know, my oldest niece Teá passed away in August 2018 at the age of 18. And she was my biggest cheerleader. She loved fashion and wanted to be a fashion designer. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">When you lose a child in your life, it hits deeper than other losses. Losing my dad and brother were different. Still painful but different. Losing a child forces you to truly see life can end at any time. And for me, it was so much easier to retreat into my cave and not engage with others as I tried to figure out how to deal with the tragic loss. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Fashion and style has always been one of the major driving forces in my relationship with my nieces. Those two things helped all of us build confidence, connect and honestly, feel happy. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">My nieces inspire me on so many levels because they have made me into the woman I am today. When I look at them, I see my reflection and that reminds me to keep pushing through. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I'm better because of them. They have taught me patience and compassion. They have reminded me of my beauty and greatness. They encourage me to keep my confidence consistent. They also remind me to be present and live fully in the moment. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Basically, my nieces, my "little women", are an important part of my life. They are like my lifeline. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">They are the ones who encourage me to be different and celebrate who I am. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">My late niece especially. She was all about creating her own trends and not being a slave to what the industry offered. She wore what she loved and boy, did she love fashion! </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">This journey included me finding out who I was, learning to love myself unconditionally and in turn, being who I was 100% through my style. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Fear had always been the deciding factor when I wanted to wear something bold that was so me. Fear of what others would say or think. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">And my nieces see me in a different light than I do. So seeing myself through their eyes was so imperative to me during my journey because it showed me that I was my own biggest critic. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">While there were times in my life where I just wanted to blend in with the background and not have a spotlight on me because of that fear of how others would look at me, my nieces always reminded me that I should embrace my uniqueness and own my space. That the only opinion that should matter is the one I have for myself. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">They instilled in me the importance of the story I tell myself and how important it is to create a narrative that will uplift me and not bring me down. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Part of my uniqueness is my love for sneakers, especially adidas. I have been known to incorporate sneakers into my looks, even wearing sneakers with a gown on the red carpet. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Growing up in the 80's, the Run-DMC song "<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNua1lFDuDI" target="_blank">My adidas</a>" became my "Rocky" anthem. To this day, when I hear that song and I'm wearing adidas, I walk taller with my head up high, with a pep in my step. I forget I'm a fat girl. I'm just me, rocking my style and my adidas. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">What I love the most about adidas is how they celebrate women. This year for Women's History Month / International Women's Day, they are partnering with <a href="https://ifundwomen.com/" target="_blank">iFundWomen</a> to support women entrepreneurs in sport. They want to create opportunity and visibility for women in the sport industry through access to funding and expert coaching. You can find out more <b><a href="https://ifundwomen.com/adidas" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a></b>. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Sneakers have been part of my DNA since I was a kid and to be able to feel like everyone else and wear the same things as everyone else gives me peace in a world where I constantly stand out, sometimes for the wrong reasons. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I just want to exist, live my life to its fullest with lots of laughs and fun with my little women. But the world isn't that kind at times, with some expressing their opinions about me existing in a fat body. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I did not set out to be an activist but living in a fat body makes me one every time I choose to walk out the door and into the world. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">My nieces remind me that while there are some who will react negatively to my existence, the majority of the world sees me as someone who inspires them to own their space. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">They also remind me the importance of my work of encouraging my audience to celebrate who they are and step into the power of their personal style no matter what size or age they are. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I think about Teá every time I get dressed. Even after her death, she continues to take every step with me in this journey to living the best life possible. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I'm so thankful for the little women in my life for just being in it. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Suvana turns 18 this year in May and will be able to vote for the first time. She is a gifted artist who loves to wear all black, has a collection of combat boots and watches Steven Universe. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Angel will be 14 in June, a few days after the six-year anniversary of the death of her dad. But that child has so much light and color that I know she will make him proud. Her Tik Tok videos kill me every time. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Ashley will be 2 in May and is already showing that she has a stand out personality and is so independent. She loves to try on my adidas and walk around in them. Serenity is three weeks old and I cannot wait to see the woman that she becomes. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Man, these kids make me want to do incredible things so they in turn will want to do the same. Plus, I want to always be the cool Auntie, lol. The next generation looks so bright and I hope I live long enough to see all them blossom into their ultimate greatness. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">At the end of the day, they remind me daily that we all have a story. Let's make sure it's a story worth living. </span><br />
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</span> <u><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Here's some links to check out while you're home!</span></u><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">My favorite collection from adidas - Superstar! <a href="https://www.adidas.com/us/superstar?utm_source=blog&utm_medium=internationalwomensday&utm_campaign=marcy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"><b>CLICK HERE</b></a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">My newest pair of kicks - trying out the Advantage style <a href="https://www.adidas.com/us/advantage-shoes/EH1112.html?utm_source=blog&utm_medium=internationalwomensday&utm_campaign=marcy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"><b>CLICK HERE</b></a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">The tee I'm wearing - it's a men's tee (wearing a size 3X)! <a href="https://www.adidas.com/us/favorites-tee/FM6023.html?utm_source=blog&utm_medium=internationalwomensday&utm_campaign=marcy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"><b>CLICK HERE</b></a></span><br />
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</span> <u><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">And the next 2 pairs I am eyeing:</span></u><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><a href="https://www.adidas.com/us/superstar-shoes/FV3327.html?utm_source=blog&utm_medium=internationalwomensday&utm_campaign=marcy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Superstar kicks in a snake print</a> - YES!!!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><a href="https://www.adidas.com/us/superstar-shoes/FV3289.html?utm_source=blog&utm_medium=internationalwomensday&utm_campaign=marcy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Superstar kicks in a heart print</a> - OMGOSH!!!</span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">**This blog post was sponsored by <a href="https://www.adidas.com/us" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">adidas</a> but all opinions and statements are my own.</span>Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-2548921395013934872020-01-11T12:53:00.000-05:002020-01-11T12:53:39.089-05:00Shopping at Consignment Stores as a Plus Size Woman<h2 style="text-align: center;">
"Your present circumstances don't determine where you can go. They merely determine where you start." ~ Nido Qubein</h2>
New year for me means truly looking at my closet and planning ahead on what I will add and remove. I used to be that girl who bought on impulse if something was on sale. And while it felt good to score a top for $3, I maybe wore it twice and then threw it back in the closet.<br />
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This was my way of thinking from a poor person's perspective. When you don't have much money and tons of responsibility, you tend to lose your worth in the process because everything comes before you.<br />
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BUT... I have learned that it's not only okay to invest in yourself via your clothing but also, even if you don't have a ton of money, there's always a way to score some quality-made clothing that does not have a low price tag.<br />
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Also, I just got tired of having tons of clothing I never wore simply because I bought them at a low price. To me, that made no sense. I'm more mindful of my space and want less clutter. I want my money well spent. And I want to make sure I wear everything I own multiple times and truly love what I am wearing. A low price point should not solely direct my fashion buy choices.<br />
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One of the things I started to do was shop secondhand. While shopping for plus size clothing secondhand is not always easy, especially if you're over a size 24, if you do the research, it is possible. Sometimes you'll find that unicorn at Goodwill but there's places now dedicated to plus size consignment.<br />
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When I travel, I also seek out consignment places to shop as I'm in New York City, which surprisingly is not a plus size shopping mecca. To be honest, I find more clothing outside of NYC. You'd be surprised at what you find when you look.<br />
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In LA, I love visiting <a href="http://www.theplus-bus.com/" target="_blank">the Plus Bus</a>, where I can buy and sell my clothing. They also host body positive events and you never know who you will run into, while there. While in San Francisco, my friend Tigress took me to <a href="https://outofthecloset.org/" target="_blank">Out of The Closet</a>, where their plus size section was actually decent! I racked up on some much-needed quality sleepwear separates where they were like $3 a piece.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Me with Troy of A Bear Named Troy at The Plus Bus</td></tr>
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In Portland, I shopped at the <a href="http://www.curvychiccloset.com/" target="_blank">Curvy Chic Closet bi-annual event</a>, where I got so many amazing things including new with tags stuff from Eloquii, under $10! Their next event is May 7-10, 2020 and I will definitely be there.<br />
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Also in Portland is <a href="https://fatfancyfashions.com/" target="_blank">Fat Fancy</a>, a consignment store dedicated to plus sizes for both men and women. If you're looking for funky pieces, they got you! I saw a green sequin purse there that I still regret on buying. I also found many Torrid pieces there, as well as Chubby Cartwheels and other indie brands.<br />
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Outside of Chicago in Rockford, IL is <a href="http://www.secondhandcurves.com/" target="_blank">Secondhand Curves</a>, which is one of my favorite places to shop. Low prices, great finds and extra large dressing rooms. They also have an annual event called Secondhand Curves Con every fall, which includes a fashion show and keynote speakers.<br />
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I have never been to <a href="https://www.cakeplussize.com/" target="_blank">Cake Plus Size Resale</a> in Minneapolis but it's on my bucket list.<br />
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Then when I come back home, I love stopping by <a href="https://plusbklyn.com/" target="_blank">Plus BKLYN</a> to see what I can find. They carry plus size vintage too, which is a definite plus. I'm still on the hunt for anything from Beth Ditto, especially her collection with Evans a decade ago. And I am confident I will find it at <a href="https://plusbklyn.com/" target="_blank">Plus BKLYN</a> one day!<br />
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Lastly, I have been shopping and selling my clothing online via the <a href="https://www.bloggerhousecurvycloset.com/" target="_blank">Blogger House Curvy Closet</a>. It makes me feel good to know I can help my other size 24+ sisters get access to clothing in their size on a budget. I am one of the few sellers that offers up to a size 32.<br />
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At BHCC, nothing is over $40 so you can rack up and not feel guilty. They have 2-3 sales weekly on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bloggerhousecurvycloset/" target="_blank">Facebook</a> and also an FB group where they hold flash sales and members sell items that may not have fit.<br />
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They also just introduced their +style boxes where you can get a box full of 3-5 items for one low flat price. All boxes have items per size so yes, there were style boxes for my size 26/28/30 ladies!<br />
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See, shopping consignment as a plus size woman over a size 24 is possible.<br />
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Next up on the blog this week, I will talk more on how I have been shopping at a higher price point while on a budget. It's all about investing in yourself and not just treating yourself. Those treats are for the immediate moment but investment is for a lifetime.<br />
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I believe in living in the NOW but I want to look good while doing so. A $5 Starbucks coffee a few times a week versus a dope moto jacket? I think I will take the jacket, thankyouverymuch!Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-11525190553788354962019-12-02T08:00:00.000-05:002019-12-02T08:00:06.048-05:00Beauty Products for Women Over 40: My Favorites<h3 style="text-align: center;">
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">"Nature gives you the face you have at twenty; it is up to you to merit the face you have at fifty." ~ Coco Chanel</span></h3>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I'm one year away from 50 and am still in disbelief. It's as if the years are flying by and I am trying to catch up. But I welcome the fine lines I am starting to see on my forehead and around my eyes. I know that comes from decades of smiling and lack of sleep from the kids in my life (which was worth it). </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">But I'm not feeling that loose skin under my chin and my droopy eyelids. I am human, you know. <laughs></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">While this face of mine is aging, I am learning to get used to everything that comes with that, including taking better care of my skin. I haven't been the best at that, I will admit.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I remember telling a makeup artist while I was on set one day for a Glamour Magazine video that I basically just splash some water on my face, put some shea butter or vaseline on my face and just go. I don't wear makeup often either. And when I do, it's often just some mascara, a little cover up and a brow touch up to fill in this small bald spot I have from over tweezing my right eyebrow.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">She was horrified and thus began my mission to better skin care and also learning more about makeup. There are times I like to glam it up and I wanted to learn how to "beat" my own face (like the millennials call it). </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I have very dry skin and aside from the summer where I sweat so much that my skin stays moisturized (as seen above while in Puerto Rico this year), I tend to get a lot of flakiness, especially around my eyes, my chin and forehead. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I also have freckles and very pale skin so I stay out of the sun as much as I can and try to use products for sensitive skin. I drink tons of water and don't smoke. I don't normally have acne or break out, which is a blessing. But that may change with me being pre-menopausal. Another blog post for another day. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">So many readers ask me what beauty products I use since I don't look my age and while I have yet to find the perfect moisturizer to combat the flakes, here's some of my favorite beauty products at the moment:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">This was in my <a href="http://bit.ly/2Pcvym7" target="_blank">IPSY</a> bag this month and so far, I love it. It moisturizes nicely, doesn't feel heavy and a little can go a long way. My skin doesn't stay moisturized by the end of the day, though. But I do think that has more to do with me washing my face better with a scrub. If you have any suggestions, please let me know! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">This spray is one of my favorite things EVER. I'm actually obsessed with anything from Mario Badescu and ULTA always has his stuff on sale. When I am feeling AND looking tired, I just spray this over my face and it totally wakes up my skin. The glow up is so real after that. It's a great way to moisturize your skin at times when you need a little pick-me-up. And the bottle is small enough to toss in your purse and go.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">My mom bought me a jar of this incredible stuff for my birthday and I am in love. I use this from head to toe and even use it on Baby, especially when she scratches herself or has a rash. I put it on her healing scars and it helps them go away quicker. My hands get so dry and this is like magic on them. I will admit it feels a tad heavy and greasy when I put it on my face so I mainly use this cream for my body and try to use something lighter on my face. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">This was also an <a href="http://bit.ly/2Pcvym7" target="_blank">IPSY</a> find when it was put in my bag recently. I have been looking for a primer because I went for years not using one under my makeup since I had no idea what primer was. But then a stern look and "You need to use primer, Girl!" from fellow blogger/resident beauty expert <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lapecosapreciosa/" target="_blank">Sandra of La Pecosa Preciosa</a> had me shook to the point where I had to find me some primer. This one is lightweight, dries quickly and makes my skin look great. You can wear it alone as a moisturizer too. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">And if you're like me and still trying to figure makeup and beauty products out, I strongly suggest joining <a href="http://bit.ly/2Pcvym7" target="_blank">IPSY</a>. You get a personalized monthly bag with 5 products for $10 a month. And I have discovered so many new brands and tried new stuff just from <a href="http://bit.ly/2Pcvym7" target="_blank">IPSY</a>. You can find out more and join <b><a href="http://bit.ly/2Pcvym7" target="_blank">here</a></b>.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">So I want to hear from all of you... what are your favorite skin care products?</span></div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Photographer: Sandra Negron -<a href="https://www.instagram.com/lapecosapreciosa/" target="_blank"> La Pecosa Preciosa</a> / Dress: Modcloth</td></tr>
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Sneakers are that happy thing in my life where I don't feel excluded or unwanted as a customer. I walk into a sneaker store and I feel like I belong. No one judges me on my size and I can just shop like everyone else. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">But it's not just that. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">While it's great to feel "normal" for a change, sneakers are also a part of my DNA. They've allowed me to express myself even more. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Want to know a secret? I used to just wear sneakers in my everyday world and never really included them in my fashion "work" world. I was made to feel like they didn't belong in that world because I used to spend a ton of time comparing myself to other people and trying to fit into <i>their</i> world.</span><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Photographer: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jmilagrosphotography/" target="_blank">Jessica Milagros</a> / Custom camo jeans: <a href="https://www.2bcontjeans.com/" target="_blank">2B Continued Denim Boutique</a></td></tr>
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">But then four years ago, I suffered a foot injury where the podiatrist dropped some major gems on me, when it came to foot care. One of those gems was how important it is to wear the right shoes. Sure, heels and flats are cute and stylish but in my case, they were making my feet worse. My </span><a href="https://www.drugs.com/health-guide/fallen-arch.html" style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;" target="_blank">arches</a><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> had collapsed and I developed </span><a href="https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/plantar-fasciitis/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20354851" style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;" target="_blank">plantar fasciitis</a><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">.</span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I had to wear a boot to bed every night for 2 months and I also had to wear a custom insole in my shoes. Doctor said sneakers are key and I needed to find those that fit well too.</span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I then decided to break all the fashion rules and incorporate sneakers into my fashion world. And guess what???? Years later, sneakers have now become fashionable where everyone now seems to be wearing them to fashion events too!</span><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Photographer: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/rosecityphotog/" target="_blank">Hal Harrison</a> / Custom rosette dress: <a href="https://www.2bcontjeans.com/" style="font-size: 12.8px;" target="_blank">2B Continued Denim Boutique</a></td></tr>
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Me letting go of comparing myself to others and being true to myself and my style made me feel stronger, more fearless and free. That's what sneakers represent for me. I can be myself and my feet thank me for that.</span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I like to be creative and think outside the box when it comes to choosing which sneakers to wear in the fashion world. And Adidas is one of those brands that allows me to experiment with different looks. </span><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Photographer: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/plusjones/" target="_blank">Madeline Jones</a> / Outfit: Fashion to Figure</td></tr>
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">So I feel I have come full circle in my life. It's powerful when you realize you can be truly you and wear what you want, once you decide to be fearless enough to be you. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">We already know it's a radical thing to exist in a fat body and be happy in a world that thinks we shouldn't be. </span></h4>
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">But to wear what you want and be true to your style no matter what anyone else is doing or wearing? Man, that's a feeling that will make you feel incredible and happy no matter what your size.</span><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Photographer: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/plusjones/" target="_blank">Madeline Jones</a> / Top: <a href="https://www.femininefunk.com/" target="_blank">Feminine Funk</a>, Jeans: Lane Bryant</td></tr>
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">With that said, high-quality sneakers (and shoes!) are not cheap and are truly an investment piece. That's why every year, I wait for Black Friday, Cyber Monday and the overall holiday shopping season to get my shop on for myself and the family.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;">This will get me prepped for 2020 and I can't wait!!! Happy Shopping AND here's to being authentically you and wearing what you want. Life is short and I want to live to love another day, with my Adidas on.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">As I have said so many times on this blog before, I have a love and hate relationship with jeans. It's to the point where I started calling them Satan's pants and even blurted that out in the opening of the first video I filmed for Glamour Magazine's Sizes 0 to 28 fashion series.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Since then, I have tried jeans from a myraid of brands and still haven't found a pair that I am truly in love with. I have come close and now I am starting to think that I may not find the perfect pair, unless I get them custom-made. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">(Shout out to Conchita E. Jamison and her custom denim business </span><a href="https://www.2bcontjeans.com/" style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;" target="_blank">2B Continued Denim Boutique</a><span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">!)</span></h4>
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<li><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">My calves measure 23" at the top part but then thin out towards the ankle. A pair of jeans may go over my ankle and bottom part of my calves but then be super tight in the upper area.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I have a long torso and short legs with my inseam being 28". So I am in between petites and regular lengths. For reference, I am 5'6".</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">So when I heard that Lane Bryant launched a special feature called the Flexband Magic Waistband, on ALL their jeans, I had to find out more and try these jeans out. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">The folks at Lane Bryant were kind enough to send me two pairs of jeans of my choice so here's what I chose and my fit experience:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><b><u>#1: <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Fhigh-rise-3-button-jegging-black-%2Fprd-357384%23color%2F0000081504" target="_blank">High Rise 3-Button Jegging in Black</a></u></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">These are not your normal <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Fhigh-rise-3-button-jegging-black-%2Fprd-357384%23color%2F0000081504" target="_blank">jeggings</a>! They have a three-button zip closure, which I love, because basic jeggings with an elastic waist never stay up on me and I can't wear a belt with them as they never have belt loops. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I paired the jeggings with one of my fave <a href="https://www.femininefunk.com/collections/all/products/kinda-classy-kinda-hood" target="_blank">tees from Feminine Funk</a> and for a pop of color, I wore my red Adidas Continental 80 sneakers, which I got on sale for $28 recently (they were marked down to $40 and I had an promo code to get extra off). Unfortunately, these red ones are sold out.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">What's great about the <a href="https://www.adidas.com/us/continental_80?start=48" target="_blank">Continental 80 line</a> from Adidas is that they have so many colors and prints to choose from. I'm always about a pop of color or fun print when it comes my look, including sneakers.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">These jeggings get two thumbs for me and I am going to see if they come in other washes and colors. I. MUST. HAVE. THEM. ALL.</span></div>
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<b style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><u>#2: </u></b><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><b><u><a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Ftri-sculpt-high-rise-skinny-jean-dark-iris-wash%2Fprd-357386%23color%2F0000012008" target="_blank">Tri-Sculpt High Rise Skinny Jean in Dark Iris Wash</a></u></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I went in with high hopes with these jeans because not only did LB promise no gaps but these jeans have a comfy built-in slimming mesh that is supposed to offer tummy and waist control, smooth your thighs and boost your booty. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">The calves fit well and the length was great. With a belt, these jeans managed to stay up for a second day of wear a few days later. I love how they're stretchy and don't feel constrictive but still keep you supported. And the booty was looking good, I have to admit. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Pink is such a great neutral that really gives a nice pop of color to a look. These <a href="http://xn--basket%20crush%20emboss%20heart%20womens%20sneakers-co75a/" target="_blank">sneakers</a> are currently on sale for $39.99 in sizes 5.5 to 11. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Next up, I plan to try these jeans, the <a href="https://www.lanebryant.com/signature-fit-skinny-jean-dark-wash-with-destruction/prd-357367#color/0000012008" target="_blank">Signature Fit Skinny Jean in Dark Wash With Destruction</a>... I've heard great things about them.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Now if they can add a size 30/32 to their size range so even more women can try their jeans, I will rejoice to the heavens.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">I have a streetwear style aesthetic and often times, I am told I should dress my age. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">Also, my struggle is different than those plus size women under a size 24. They have much more options than I have when it comes to shopping. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small; font-weight: normal;">Many brands think plus sizes stop at a size 24 so often, I can't shop new size expansions and have to get crafty when it comes to putting together looks.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Since sizing is so inconsistent across the board, there are times I can fit into a 24 and 3X but those times are rare. I believe in taking chances so instead of just bypassing those brands that don't offer above a size 24, I instead look at their assortment and pick items based on fabric, measurements and customer reviews. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Those three key factors truly make the difference when shopping for clothing.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">So when the folks at <a href="http://bit.ly/FTFCloset-Marcy2" target="_blank">Fashion to Figure</a> invited me to try <a href="http://try.fashiontofigurecloset.com/Marcy277" target="_blank">their new subscription service</a> for three months, at first, I was hesitant, because they don't carry my size. But then, I reminded myself of my three key shopping factors and dived in!</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The <a href="http://bit.ly/FTFCloset-Marcy2" target="_blank">FTF subscription service</a> mirrors Gwynnie Bee's model so it was easy for me to start creating my closet as I have used the GB service before. <a href="http://try.fashiontofigurecloset.com/Marcy277">The service</a> offers a 3-garment plan for $54.95 with free shipping both ways. You can get as many boxes as you can within that month. And you can purchase items you have at home at a discount.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small; font-weight: 400;">It's required that you add at least 8 items to your closet to have your first box prepared and shipped. So I got busy, adding items.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small; font-weight: 400;">My first box arrived quickly with a maxi dress, a graphic tee and a skirt. </span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;"><i>And all three items fit!</i></span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small; font-weight: 400;"> I'm wearing a size 3 in all styles. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">For reference, I'm 5'6", my measurements are 57-51-68 and I wear a 44/46F in bras.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">And I have to admit, I was pleasantly surprised that the tee and skirt fit comfortably. The skirt is a high/low silhouette and to be honest, the front part is a bit short for me but I am all about getting out of my comfort zone and trying new things. So I was showing off them legs in these streets...</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">All in all, I am really happy I took a chance and tried <a href="http://try.fashiontofigurecloset.com/Marcy277">FTF's subscription service</a>. I am sure I will have some misses but if I don't try, I won't know what WILL fit. And I can just send back what doesn't fit.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Stay tuned as I share more of my looks during the next three months and show how I made my closet work for me, even though FTF doesn't carry my size.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">"We need to focus on bringing our best, not worrying about what anyone else is bringing." ~</span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> Blanca Rodriguez, </span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">POSE, Season 1: Mother of The Year episode</span></h3>
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;">Jumpsuits still scare me and everytime I wear one, I feel invincible because I know the work it took to get myself into it. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;">I don't like being exposed in the front. I'm someone who is still working on tucking my shirt in and not worrying about my belly outline and camel toe. But I am getting there. One day at a time.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;">The journey to self love and acceptance is one you commit to for the rest of your life. And sometimes it's not easy. But once you start on that journey, let me tell you, the wins become the majority of your life and you are better equipped to handle those bad days.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;">I call them <b><u>lessons</u></b>, <b><u>reminders</u></b> and just <b><u>a step on this journey of mine</u></b>. Every day I venture out of my house, looking my best and striving to be the best person I can be, is a win in my book, regardless if the day ends up being horrible. I'm feeling confident and not worrying about what anyone else is doing or saying.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;">So I decided it had been too long since I had worn a jumpsuit and since I have been really pushing myself out of my comfort zone lately, I decided it was time.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;">This <a href="https://www.catherines.com/the-modern-striped-jumpsuit/prd-317875?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link2:06242019" target="_blank">Modern Striped Jumpsuit</a> from <a href="http://www.catherines.com/?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link1:06242019" target="_blank">Catherines</a> really stood to me and I was surprised at myself! I usually shy away from black because it reminds me of my younger years when all I heard from my mom was to wear black because it was "slimming".</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;">But I love stripes; I love a great culotte and while jumpsuits scare me, I have always coveted them from afar. <a href="https://www.catherines.com/the-modern-striped-jumpsuit/prd-317875?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link2:06242019" target="_blank">This one</a> is so chic with a detachable tie belt and has a wide leg with a slightly stretchy crepe fabric.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Now that it's officially summer, that means battling with different temperatures as you come and go. Hot outside and freezing inside. So I always carry a jacket with me that I can tuck in my handbag or tie around my waist when outside and feeling hot.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">This <a href="https://www.catherines.com/eyelet-denim-jacket/prd-317368?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link3:06242019" target="_blank">Eyelet Denim Jacket</a> from <a href="http://www.catherines.com/?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link1:06242019" target="_blank">Catherines</a> was perfect. I love me some denim and white is a nice color to rock in the summer. I'm not a huge fan of white as it gets dirty easily but <a href="https://www.catherines.com/eyelet-denim-jacket/prd-317368?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link3:06242019" target="_blank">this one</a> caught my eye because of the eyelet detail.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I can wear <a href="https://www.catherines.com/the-modern-striped-jumpsuit/prd-317875?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link2:06242019" target="_blank">this jumpsuit</a> in the Spring and Fall, too! I can replace the tie belt with a wide leather one in a bold color like red or yellow. I can wear knee high boots with <a href="https://www.catherines.com/the-modern-striped-jumpsuit/prd-317875?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link2:06242019" target="_blank">this jumpsuit</a> and an obi belt, paired with a moto jacket. I can even mix prints and add some small polka dots in the form of shoes or a jacket.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">On this day, I was reminded how far I have come in my journey and that I shouldn't be afraid to wear <a href="https://www.catherines.com/the-modern-striped-jumpsuit/prd-317875?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link2:06242019" target="_blank">a jumpsuit</a>. I always need a reminder every now and then. Getting out of your comfort zone and having those fearless moments are so important to your journey and for me, it reminds me that I have to stop worrying about what others think and just be <i>fearlessly just me</i>.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;">Are you a fan of jumpsuits or do you shy away from them? Please let me know below in a comment or on social media <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fearlesslyjustme/" style="color: blue; max-width: calc(815px); outline: none; text-decoration-line: none; transition: all 0.2s ease 0s;" target="_blank"><b>@fearlesslyjustme</b></a> on Instagram and <b><a href="https://www.facebook.com/fearlesslyjustme/" style="color: blue; max-width: calc(815px); outline: none; text-decoration-line: none; transition: all 0.2s ease 0s;" target="_blank">here</a> </b>on Facebook! Let's chat!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;">I love shopping at <a href="http://www.catherines.com/?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link1:06242019" target="_blank">Catherines</a> because they are one of the few brands who not only offers up to a size 5X but also has physical stores that you can visit to try on clothing. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #080808; font-family: verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><a href="https://www.catherines.com/the-modern-striped-jumpsuit/prd-317875?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link2:06242019" target="_blank">The Modern Striped Jumpsuit</a> (wearing size 28W)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #080808; font-family: "Open Sans", sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #080808; font-family: verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #080808; font-family: verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><a href="https://www.catherines.com/eyelet-denim-jacket/prd-317368?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link3:06242019" target="_blank">Eyelet Denim Jacket</a> (wearing size 3X)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #080808; font-family: "Open Sans", sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #080808; font-family: verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br /></span><br />
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Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-42882320865614982682019-05-06T10:42:00.000-04:002019-05-06T10:42:49.941-04:00#IAmFearlesslyMe with Catherines: The Skinny Jean<h3 style="text-align: center;">
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">"Diversity is the one true thing we all have in common. Celebrate it every day." ~ Author Unknown</span></h3>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">This rings true especially for plus size women as it's harder for us to find clothing we love that fits well. Now if you're above a size 24, it's even more challenging to find cute stuff. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;">I believe we are all worthy of having access to clothing that fits us in our size and style. This is why I believe it’s important for customers to see bodies like theirs reflected in the models shown online, in store ads and in campaigns. Showing a diverse set of bodies not only shows a more accurate fit of the garment on different shapes and sizes but also empowers women to try new styles and shop more. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Times are changing and with that, more visibly plus models are being shown in major campaigns and some brands are extending their sizes. YAY!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">But there is still more work to be done and </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I personally feel like instead of griping and complaining, I should use my pen and voice to do something positive. We, as customers, have the power to let brands know what we want. Believe me, they are listening.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">So this is why I have decided to create a new size inclusive series aptly titled #IAmFearlessly Me. I want all of us, no matter what size you are, to be fearless in who you are because we are all beautiful and worthy of being seen.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">It seems appropriate to kick off this series with <a href="http://www.catherines.com/?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link1:03282019" target="_blank">Catherines</a>, a retailer who offers up to a size 5X. They're a <a href="http://www.catherines.com/?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link1:03282019" target="_blank">great brand</a> to shop for extended sizes and petites, offering quality basics, stylish (and cute!) dresses and tops, as well as amazing denim.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I have made no secret of my love for their Right Fit jean, which is the only jean I can wear without a belt. I recently did a dressing room video that you can see on my IGTV channel on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fearlesslyjustme/" target="_blank">Instagram</a> where I loved almost everything I tried on.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Some may view <a href="http://www.catherines.com/?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link1:03282019" target="_blank">Catherines</a> as a matronly brand but honestly, it's all in how you style your items. I saw some major gems in store and honestly, their fit is much better in my experience than most plus size brands. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.catherines.com/?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link1:03282019" target="_blank">Catherines</a> recently debuted a <a href="https://www.catherines.com/skinny-leg-jean/prd-315385?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link4:03282019" target="_blank">skinny jean</a>, which piqued my curiosity so I thought that would be a great item to feature in this series. I mean, who doesn't love a <a href="https://www.catherines.com/skinny-leg-jean/prd-315385?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link4:03282019" target="_blank">skinny jean</a>, especially if the fit is right?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I asked my fellow blogger sister <a href="https://www.instagram.com/therealsamplesize/" target="_blank">ShaKera</a> of <a href="http://www.therealsamplesize.com/" target="_blank">The Real Sample Size</a> to join me and show how the jean fits both of us.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">ShaKera is a size 20/22 and carries most of her weight on top. She has thinner legs and ankles. She's 5'6".</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I'm a size 26/28 and depending on the brand, I wear either size in jeans. I have a cross between a pear and hourglass shape with a defined waist. I carry most of my weight in my hips and my calves are fuller, measuring 23" around. I'm 5'6".</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">We're both wearing <a href="https://www.catherines.com/skinny-leg-jean/prd-315385?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link4:03282019" target="_blank">Catherines' skinny leg jean</a>, styled our way. ShaKera is wearing a size 22 in the jean and I'm wearing a size 26 petite, as I have short legs and a long torso. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;">Please let me know below in a comment or on social media <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fearlesslyjustme/" target="_blank"><b>@fearlesslyjustme</b></a> on Instagram and <b><a href="https://www.facebook.com/fearlesslyjustme/" target="_blank">here</a></b> on Facebook.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;"><b><u>ShaKera</u></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;"><a href="https://www.catherines.com/roman-terrace-buttonfront-tunic-top/prd-316978?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link2:03282019" target="_blank">Roman Terrace Buttonfront Tunic Top</a> (wearing size 2X)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><a href="https://www.catherines.com/printed-timeless-tunic-tank-with-cutout/prd-316787?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link2:03282019" target="_blank">Printed Timeless Tunic Tank with Cutout</a> (wearing size 3X)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><a href="https://www.catherines.com/printed-effortless-linen-buttonfront-top/prd-316914?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link3:03282019" target="_blank">Printed Effortless Linen Buttonfront Top</a> (wearing size 3X)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><a href="https://www.catherines.com/skinny-leg-jean/prd-315385?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link4:03282019" target="_blank">Skinny Leg Jean</a> (wearing size 26W in petite)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><a href="https://www.catherines.com/good-soles-sparkling-sandal/prd-316202?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link5:03282019" target="_blank">Good Soles Sparkling Sandal</a> (wearing size 9W)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-48995804887265973352019-04-10T08:00:00.000-04:002019-04-10T08:00:06.606-04:00Realizing Your Greatness During Bad Times<h3 style="text-align: center;">
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">"</span><span style="font-family: georgia, times new roman, serif;">Grief is never something you get over. You don't wake up one morning and say, 'I've conquered that; now I'm moving on.' It's something that walks beside you every day. And if you can learn how to manage it and honor the person that you miss, you can take something that is incredibly sad and have some form of positivity." ~ Terri Irwin</span></h3>
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Today marks 8 years since my dad died.</div>
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8 years may seem like a LONG time. But when you lose someone of this magnitude, time holds no meaning. I can still remember getting that call, finding out that he was gone. He was only 61.</div>
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But I also remember his laugh, his deep voice calling me "Marce" and the gap between his two front teeth. I remember his smile and how he always looked at me with such pride. I was his only daughter, his oldest child and I was a reflection of him through my personality and spirit. </div>
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I have his eyes, nose and chin. I inherited his love for baseball and the gift of gab. When he walked into a room, he owned it in a way where people were drawn to him and his light. He had kind eyes but a strong presence. He was simply, a quiet storm and anyone who has ever met him, never forgot him.</div>
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I cherished those times we'd spend hours walking around Home Depot, him showing me various tools and giving me tips or how-to's on building things from shelves to even installing my own light fixtures.</div>
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I lived for our movie moments... he exposed my brother and I to the art of cinema and we watched everything from old spaghetti westerns to action movies. He'd take us to the triple feature in Times Square where my brother and I fell in love with old school kung fu flicks from the Shaw Brothers.</div>
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Every Easter, he would make my brother and I sit through King of Kings, which was one of his favorite Biblical films. At the time, we were so annoyed (that movie is LONG) but now every Easter, I watch it with a new appreciation. </div>
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My dad loved music... some days he'd be rocking out to some Jimi Hendrix and some days, he'd be sitting in the dark, listening to Barbra Streisand. I still cry when I hear the Commodores' Easy because I can hear his deep voice singing along to it. </div>
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I miss talking to him the most. He was my mentor and advisor. He always knew the right things to say or do. And he reminded me of my greatness. So when he died, I felt lost. How was I to move on if he wasn't here in the physical sense. Who would help guide me on my life's journey?</div>
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Through loss (my brother would die 3 years later and then my oldest niece, his daughter, would die 7 years later), I was forced to find my voice on my own and realize my greatness. And that is a gift my dad left behind for me that is more valuable than anything else.</div>
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I'm sure he knew I would be okay without him and I would not be shocked to find out that that was part of his final thoughts as he laid in pain on the side of the NJ Turnpike, 12 miles out of the Lincoln Tunnel.</div>
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But I had to learn that on my own. I learned that I'm stronger than I ever thought I was. And I learned that it is possible to realize your greatness during bad times.</div>
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I've been through A LOT in the last 8 years. But I have also accomplished a lot. I continue to hear his voice in my ear, edging me along on this path. Now I have my brother pushing me and my niece.</div>
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It's not easy but I commit to taking it one day at a time. I'm still mourning my niece who has only been gone 7 months and sometimes it is overwhelming to grieve for 3 people. But I push through.</div>
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So on this day, I cry, I feel so heartbroken and I'm so sad. But I also feel hopeful and proud of how far I have come. I know he is proud of me. Grief is something that holds no timetable and it's a different journey for everyone. I try to stay focused on channeling my grief into something positive. Some days I am a mess and some days, I am winning. </div>
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But one thing I do know, I'm still standing. My heart hurts. But I am still here.</div>
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I love you, Daddy. And I miss you very much. You will never be forgotten.</div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I stumbled upon the </span><a href="https://www.thecut.com/author/heather-havrilesky/" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif;" target="_blank">Ask Polly column on The Cut.com</a><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"> a few months ago while sick with the flu and to say it blew my mind is an understatement.</span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">In the column titled ‘<a href="https://www.thecut.com/2018/11/im-broke-and-friendless-and-ive-wasted-my-whole-life.html" target="_blank">I’m Broke and Mostly Friendless, and I’ve Wasted My Whole Life</a>’, she advises 'Haunted', who has written in about how disappointed she is in her life, haunted by the things she had set out to accomplish in life but at the age of 35, feels she has accomplished nothing. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">"Shame is the opposite of art. When you live inside of your shame, everything you see is inadequate and embarrassing. A lifetime of traveling and having adventures and not being tethered to long-term commitments looks empty and pathetic and foolish, through the lens of shame. You haven’t found a partner. Your face is aging. Your body will only grow weaker. Your mind is less elastic. Your time is running out. Shame turns every emotion into the manifestation of some personality flaw, every casual choice into a giant mistake, every small blunder into a moral failure. Shame means that you’re damned and you’ve accomplished nothing and it’s all downhill from here."</span></blockquote>
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">When I read that, I was completely mind-blown. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">"You need to discard some of this shame you’re carrying around all the time. But even if you can’t cast off your shame that quickly, through the lens of art, shame becomes valuable. When you’re curious about your shame instead of afraid of it, you can see the true texture of the day and the richness of the moment, with all of its flaws. You can run your hands along your own self-defeating edges until you get a splinter, and you can pull the splinter out and stare at it and consider it. When you face your shame with an open heart, you’re on a path to art, on a path to finding joy and misery and fear and hope in the folds of your day. Even as your job is slow and dull and pointless, even as your afternoons alone feel treacherous and daunting, you can train your eyes on the low-hanging clouds until a tiny bit of sunlight filters through. You are alive and you will probably be alive for many decades to come. The numbers on your credit-card statements can feel harrowing, but you can take that feeling and keep it company instead of letting it eat you alive. You can walk to the corner store to buy a newspaper and pull out the weekend calendar section and circle something, and make a commitment to do that one thing. You can build a new kind of existence, one that feels small and flawed and honest, but each day you accumulate a kind of treasure that doesn’t disappear. Because instead of running away from the truth, you welcome it in. You don’t treat what you have as pointless. You work with what you have."</span></blockquote>
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Havrilesky does an incredible job of issuing advice while being transparent on how she identifies with the person's feelings, including admitting her own flaws. This makes her a real person and not just someone writing a column for a major website who also has a book out. Everyone, even someone like Oprah, has their struggles. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">"When you carry around a suspicion that there’s something sort of embarrassing or pathetic about you, you find ways to project that shame onto completely innocuous things. You find ways to tell yourself that everyone is laughing at you behind your back somewhere, possibly at a party where they are serving beautiful tasty drinks but you weren’t invited. You’re too old now. You’re no longer exciting or important. You don’t matter. You never really did. </span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Shame creates imaginary worlds inside your head. This haunted house you’re creating is forged from your shame. No one else can see it, so you keep trying to describe it to them. You find ways to say, “You don’t want any part of this mess. I’m mediocre, aging rapidly, and poor. Do yourself a favor and leave me behind.” You want to be left behind, though. That way, no one bears witness to what you’ve become. </span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><b>It’s time to come out of hiding. It’s time to step into the light and be seen, shame and wrinkles and failures and fears and all.</b>"</span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"> </span></blockquote>
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</span> <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">This year, my mission is to step into my power. I want to show up more for myself and others. I want to put myself out there more with positive intentions. I want to walk in a room with a positive attitude and be open to what awaits.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Typing that out makes the tears flow because she's only been gone 7 months. But as I learned when I lost my dad and then my brother, time does not stand still. Grief is painful but in order to live and keep moving, I have to learn how to carry that pain with me and channel it into something positive. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Honoring their legacy and continuing her work is what drives me. I'm going to be 50 next year but you know what? It's never too late to do whatever is on my life's to-do list. Gray hairs, pre-menopause and all. No wrinkles yet but I am not complaining! LOL! </span><br />
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</span> Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-89996140930516368992019-03-29T16:21:00.000-04:002019-03-29T16:21:22.888-04:00#FearlessFashion: Where To Find Amazing (& Comfy) Bras<h3 style="text-align: center;">
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">"Fashion is not about clothes. It is about a look." ~ Carine Roitfeld</span></h3>
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">And my look won't be on point if what's underneath is not right. So finding amazing (& comfy!) bras has become my mission.</span><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Shirt: Walmart - Terra & Sky / Bra: Parfait via Livi Rae Lingerie</td></tr>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif;">As I wrote about in my last blog post </span><b style="font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif;"><a href="https://www.fearlesslyjustme.net/2019/03/fearlessfashion-it-all-starts-with.html" target="_blank">here</a></b><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif;">, I had to get professionally fitted first so I knew what bra size I really was. It was a no-brainer that I was wearing the wrong bra size as 80% of women are in that same situation.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Once I was armed with information that was a combination of my true bra size (and knowing my bra size zone), my breast shape and what I should look for in a bra, I was all set. Now to find bras that can fit my lifestyle.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">For me, I need a few bras for different things I have happening in my life so I was not looking for just 1 bra and I knew I would have to shop around and try different brands. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I relied a lot on word of mouth also. I'm that girl who reads reviews and really looks at feedback and comments on social media. Hell, I've even easedropped on some conversations in-store and interjected my own self into them! LOL!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">So here's my fave and go-to bras for every aspect of my life...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">This bra is the truth! I'll be honest. I haven't had the best luck with Torrid bras. I need a supportive band and can't do the lacy band that many of their styles used to have. But Torrid has improved vastly with their bras and now they have supportive options that I love. This is the my go-to bra for when I go to fit modeling gigs as it is imperative you have a nude bra. Plus, the option to remove the straps or cross them in the back is so important.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Also, I have been wearing more strapless styles lately as my confidence grows and a great strapless bra that holds the girls up and keeps my back and side fat smoothed out is a necessity. This bra does ALL OF THAT. You can find it <b>here</b>.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b><u>For when I need a basic everyday black bra</u></b>:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><a href="https://www.trusstbrands.com/collections/bras/products/naomi-in-black" target="_blank">The Naomi from Trusst Brands</a></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I discovered Trusst over a year ago and haven't looked back. Launched via Kickstarter in 2015, Trusst Brands has become a company that not only offers an innovative alternative to underwire but also caters to the D+ cup woman. They offer comfortable but supportive bras using 3D-printing for their bra design and obtaining a patent for their Breast Advanced Support Technology (BAST™), based on the engineering principles of a bridge truss. They now use that technology to create bras that use the core of your body to lift your breast weight from underneath the bust, reducing strain on the shoulders and back. Their bras also have a moisture-wicking, antimicrobial jersey lining and molded cups.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Let me tell you... if you ever hated your underwire stabbing you in the sides or poking through your bra, you MUST try a bra from Trusst. It has changed my life. I love how you can wear the bra as a racerback too! Plus, it's a company founded by a women for women. It can't any better than that. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The <a href="https://shefit.com/products/ultimate-sports-bra-black" target="_blank">Ultimate Sports Bra from SHEFIT</a> had me so happy that I was dancing all over the place. I admit I was skeptical when I first heard about the bra. The sizing is different where they fit you by band versus cup and they state that their sizing fits up to 97% of bra sizes. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">That's a high percentage to boast so I was intrigued. After the SHEFIT representative showed me how to put on the bra (you slip it on like you would a jacket, then close the three clips in the front and zip up, then do the scoop and swoop technique), she helped me adjust the velcro straps and band. I was fitted into a size 6 Luxe and it fit SO WELL. The girls went up and didn't move. The support was so real, I didn't take it off and wore it home under my top.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">So their patented Zip, Cinch, Lift is the truth. I can see how they secured an investor on Shark Tank last year. Read more about their story <b><a href="https://humansofsharktank.com/sara-moylan-i-created-the-first-prototype-and-unknowingly-created-a-business/" target="_blank">here</a></b> - it's pretty incredible. I also love how they spotlight women of ALL sizes on their blog being active while wearing their bras.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><a href="https://curvycouture.com/collections/curvy-couture-sport/products/ultimate-fit-underwire-sports-bra-black" target="_blank">Curvy Couture's Ultimate Fit Underwire Sports Bra</a></span></div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">With Alysse of Ready to Stare at the Curvy Couture LA Office</td></tr>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I had no idea sports bras with underwire existed so when I learned during a visit to Curvy Couture's offices in LA that they had one, I was elated and eager to try it on. Two years later, they have a newer version than the one I tried on and it is fabulous.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I actually fit into a 44 band at Curvy Couture when I am usually a 46 so knowing your bra size zone is key. Most women are wearing too large a band and too small a cup size so believe me, once you know your bra size zone, the fit becomes magical.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.elomilingerie.com/" target="_blank">Elomi</a> has so many styles that fit this category that overall, they are one of my fave brands to buy bras from. So it's no surprise that my top fave sexy-comfy bra is from Elomi, courtesy of <a href="https://liviraelingerie.com/" target="_blank">Livi Rae Lingerie</a> while I was in Atlanta.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><a href="https://liviraelingerie.com/product/elomi-matilda-plunge/" target="_blank">The Matilda Plunge Bra</a></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I have this bra in black (courtesy of my Elomi fitting above) and then in blue and pink (courtesy of <a href="https://liviraelingerie.com/" target="_blank">Livi Rae Lingerie</a>). I love that it's sexy but also comfy while lifting the girls to new heights.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">When I saw the blue one at <a href="https://liviraelingerie.com/" target="_blank">Livi Rae</a>, I swooned! I was already on Cloud Nine from my experience there so this sealed the deal. If you're ever in the Atlanta area, you MUST <a href="https://liviraelingerie.com/" target="_blank">check them out</a>. They really are the bra experts and know what styles are perfect for you by just looking at you. The dressing rooms are so big and tricked out with a comfy chair, long-view mirror, pretty curtains and positive affirmations on the walls. And the owners and salespeople there are fabulous!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Now that I have a nice bra collection to wear and wearing the right size, I feel like I can conquer the world because my back doesn't hurt anymore and no more straps digging into my shoulders. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Next up, I want to try <a href="https://www.thirdlove.com/" target="_blank">ThirdLove</a>, more <a href="https://www.trusstbrands.com/collections/bras" target="_blank">Trusst styles</a> and more <a href="https://curvycouture.com/collections/all" target="_blank">Curvy Couture styles</a>. I especially can't wait to get my hands on <a href="http://www.elomilingerie.com/lingerie/morgan/coe/banded_bra.aspx?colour=coral%20haze" target="_blank">the Morgan in Coral Haze</a>, <a href="http://www.elomilingerie.com/lingerie/bijouflirt/ray18/banded_moulded_bra.aspx?colour=raspberry" target="_blank">the Bijou Flirt in Raspberry</a> and <a href="http://www.elomilingerie.com/lingerie/kim/cal18/brief.aspx?colour=caramel" target="_blank">the Kim in Caramel</a> from <a href="http://www.elomilingerie.com/" target="_blank">Elomi</a>. I will definitely be sharing my thoughts on those styles on the blog so stay tuned.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">What are your favorite bra styles? Have you tried ThirdLove? I'd love to know. Let's chat in the comments below.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">**FYI, this post is not sponsored. All opinions and thoughts are my own.**</span>Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-30929416189875774232019-03-25T08:00:00.001-04:002019-03-25T08:00:02.112-04:00#FearlessFashion: It All Starts with The Right Bra<h3 style="text-align: center;">
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</span> <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I was shocked to learn a few years ago that 80% of women were wearing the wrong size bra. That number has come down to 64% but that's still a big number of women who are walking around with ill-fitting bras. Add to that, 24% of those women know that they are wearing the wrong size and just deal with it.</span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I was one of those 80% a few years ago and what led me to my first bra fitting as an adult was an influencer event. I was just starting out as the Blog Editor for PLUS Model Magazine back in 2013 and got invited to an event at <a href="https://dreamdry.com/" target="_blank">DreamDry hair salon</a> being hosted by <a href="https://www.nicolettemason.com/" target="_blank">Nicolette Mason</a> and <a href="https://www.panache-lingerie.com/us" target="_blank">Panache Lingerie</a> called <i>Bras and Blow-outs</i>. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">At the time, my go-to bra was a wireless <a href="https://www.walmart.com/ip/Womens-Plus-Size-cushion-strap-minimizer-wire-free-bra-style-1979/10965780" target="_blank">Just My Size full coverage bra</a> I bought at Walmart. It was comfy but not supportive at all. As I got fitted at that event, I was shocked to see my breasts actually lifted and the bra was gorgeous. I walked out of there with 2 of their new <a href="https://www.panache-lingerie.com/us/brands/sculptresse" target="_blank">Sculptresse</a> bras courtesy of Panache and a new attitude when it came to bras.</span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Underwire is not comfortable but I got used to it over time. However, I still had my issues where the wire would poke through or I would constantly have to "fix" myself. So thus, my journey to finding the right bra for me began.</span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Since that event, my career has involved me going to many more events and wearing the proper bra is key, especially with evening wear. Now that I am a <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SZBPyUq1rKQ" target="_blank">fit model</a>, wearing the right bra is a necessity because it affects garment fit and can ultimately affect how seams are placed in the bust area when being fitted. My agent told me during our first meeting to make sure I invested in some great bras. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><b><u>#1: Find the style that fits you well and that you like.</u></b></span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">There are tons of styles out there to choose from... plunge, balconette, t-shirt, bralette, etc. It's so important to arm yourself with information. Ask questions in-store. Your breast shape has a lot to do with what styles will work for you. I wear balconette, full coverage and plunge styles because I want lift and those styles work with my breast shape.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">To learn more about breast shapes, <a href="https://www.thirdlove.com/" target="_blank">ThirdLove</a> has a great Breast Shape Dictionary that I think is amazing: <a href="https://www.thirdlove.com/pages/breast-shape-dictionary">https://www.thirdlove.com/pages/breast-shape-dictionary</a></span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">One of my faves... <a href="https://amzn.to/2Ux3ag3" target="_blank">Elomi Matilda Plunge Bra</a> (I have it in black - see below). It's sexy but offers so much support.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I cannot stress this enough. As women, our weight always fluctuates and that can affect your bra size. Also, you may be different sizes in different bra brands. So knowing your "bra zone" and being knowledgeable of sister sizing is key. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I usually get fitted twice a year, every six months. That may sound excessive but is necessary since I'm a fit model. At least once a year, you should be fitted. My bra zone is now between 44F to 46DDD. As someone who is a size 26/28, I was shocked to learn that I could fit into a 44 band. But don't ever let your clothing size make you think you should be wearing a larger bra size. We all carry our weight differently and are shaped differently. So you could be the same bra size as someone who wears a size 22/24. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I tend to look for a wider strap for more support and I always make sure to adjust the straps to where they feel the most comfortable.</span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I also learned that you should wear your new bra with the first hook closed. As your bra stretches out over time, move over to the next hook. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The front gore of the bra (the middle area) should rest against your chest and not float in the air. And if your cups are not sitting under your breasts or your breasts are leaking through the bottom of your cups, you might need to size down in the band and up in the cup size. Your breast tissue should be contained in the cups and your band should be comfortably snug, which will lift your breasts high (no sag!). <b><u>This is why a bra fitting is so important.</u></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">According to Eveden N</span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">ational Fit Specialist </span><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><a href="https://lingeriebriefs.com/tag/frederika-zappe/" target="_blank">Frederika Zappe</a>, "t</span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">he underwire should surround the entire breast, with the back end of the wire sitting behind the breast tissue on the bone." Now I have met Freddy and she knows her stuff and is also one of the nicest people I have ever met. If you <a href="https://www.google.com/search?source=hp&ei=B0aYXLLyEY24ggedjYmADg&q=Frederika+Zappe&btnK=Google+Search&oq=Frederika+Zappe&gs_l=psy-ab.3..0.15866.15866..17438...2.0..0.135.200.1j1......0....2j1..gws-wiz.....6..35i39.KFhHNn2XrFc" target="_blank">Google her name</a>, several articles will come up with her dropping major gems of wisdom on bras and getting the fit right. So she knows what she's talking about.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I know that's a lot to take in. But arming yourself with this info is EVERYTHING. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">After you get fitted professionally and properly, you then get to choose what bras to wear. I have my personal favorites for work, events and even everyday wear.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Check back this Friday for my blog feature dedicated solely to my favorite bras and places to shop for bras. It will not be a sponsored post, trust. I only share what I truly love. Wearing a bra ain't fun so if I can make your life easier by sharing my experience, I'm down for it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Please comment below and let me know of your bra fitting experience. I would love to hear about it and chat more about this important topic. Let's change our lives, people!!!! xoxo</span>Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-40530288295045708732019-02-11T08:00:00.002-05:002022-11-21T10:00:47.486-05:00Size Inclusivity, Size Privilege and Mean Girls<h3 style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">I got invited to cover <a href="https://underfashionclub.org/femmy/" target="_blank">The Femmy Awards and Gala</a>, taking place at <a href="http://cipriani.com/events/?loc=ny-42nd-street" target="_blank">Cipriani 42nd St</a>. This event was sponsored by <a href="https://underfashionclub.org/" target="_blank">The Underfashion Club</a>, </span><span style="font-family: georgia, times new roman, serif;">a non-profit fashion industry group dedicated to "all facets of the intimate apparel industry: foundations, daywear, sleepwear, robes, and loungewear".</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">As someone who is considered media via my job at <a href="https://www.plus-model-mag.com/author/marcycruz/" target="_blank">PLUS Model Magazine</a>, I will admit I get some amazing opportunities to attend events like the <a href="https://underfashionclub.org/femmy/" target="_blank">Femmy Awards</a>.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">So I decided to put on a red dress (from <a href="http://bit.ly/catherinesreddress" target="_blank">Catherines</a>) that had been sitting in my closet for the last 6 weeks. I was sick with bronchitis for about 5 weeks so my 2019 actually started on 1/25. Wearing red is always something that gives me some extra uumph, which was needed for this night.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">See, this was not a plus size event. The theme of this year's awards and gala was body positivity and plus supermodel Emme was hosting (YES!), BUT this was an event where there would be media and some heavy hitters from the Intimate Apparel industry. Folks from Kohl's, Dillard's and other major brands were in attendance.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">They were also having a design contest featuring six Fashion Institute of Technology students studying intimate apparel. For the first time, students’ designs were on exhibit via mannequins from size 7 to size 2X, in keeping with the theme of “Body Positivity.” The three top finalists won $5,000 and an all-expense paid trip to Paris.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I was basically walking into a huge event, not knowing a soul and possibly being the biggest girl in the room. Of course, in Fearlessly Just Me fashion, I did just that.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">People stared and looked but not for the reasons I was used to. It was because I was wearing red in a sea of black and because people wondered who I was. I mean, I'm a gorgeous big girl wearing a body con red dress with short hair. And I'm walking up in there, like I own the place, lol.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">The Intimates Apparel industry is a tight-knit community too, I learned later that evening. And they accepted me with open arms, actually intrigued by the plus size industry and how they can bridge that gap between mainstream/straight size and plus sizes.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">Words cannot explain how included I felt and it had nothing to do with seeing someone else who looked like me. <b><u>It had to do with being seen as more than a plus size woman.</u></b> They saw me as someone who was their equal, someone in the media who came to the table confident, humble, professional and engaging.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">My size was actually an asset in this situation as they now had access to someone who was visibly plus, looked fabulous and proved that plus size women can be stylish too and know their stuff. People came up to me, introduced themselves, asked where my dress was from and just wanted to know about ME.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">I left that evening with a clutch full of business cards, including a few requests to be interviewed or featured on their website. As I walked out of Cipriani and to my waiting Uber, I skipped and danced a little, with a smile on my face.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I feel like we are now experiencing a shift in the industry where plus sizes are becoming mainstream. If you're a size 20 and under, you have become mainstream as almost all plus size brands and companies who expand on sizing, always offer up to a size 20. Those who offer above a size 24 are considered radical and really pushing boundaries in an industry where many brands think women above a size 20 don't shop or buy stylish clothing.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">Why should my size speak for how I should dress? Why should there be an immediate asumption that separates how women view style and fashion according to their size?</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, times new roman, serif;">As a size 26/28, I should not feel like I am outsized and not accepted by my own community and industry. <b><u>But I do.</u></b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">The use of the words "curvy" and "curve" have become the norm. And I feel like women like me have become lost in the shuffle.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">I can't shop everywhere I want and while the fashion industry is changing, when I am vocal about my struggles with shopping, women smaller than me try to challenge that by saying they experience the same issue. NO.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">I feel like I have to remind them that their situation is totally different than mine. If you're under a size 20, you can shop in mainstream stores like The Gap, NY & Company and countless others. I recognize that smaller women have their own fit issues but they have more options than I do when it comes to fashion.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif;">Most plus size brands stop at a size 3X and 24. So while I get excited when a brand expands their sizing into plus sizes, I can't help but feel a little deflated when I see they are still not carrying my size.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">The Femmy Awards taught me some valuable lessons. It showed me that you don't have to be around people who look like you, to fit in. At the end of the day, I am more than a plus size woman and have much more to offer as a human being.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">It also showed me that there are people out there who want to be educated more on the state of plus size fashion and that as a visibly plus size woman who does not have access to all plus size fashion, I have a strong voice that can help with that.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">While I may encounter the "You can't sit with us" mentality at times, I want to focus more on where I do sit and use that opportunity to educate, engage and network. Not being able to sit at every table doesn't limit my worth in this world or stop the work I am doing. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I'm more focused on inpiring the next generation of designers to embrace designing for ALL sizes and not just a range that excludes women who want to dress just like their thinner sisters. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">As I chatted with the six design student finalists from F.I.T., I had hope for the fashion industry in becoming more inclusive. They all spoke so passionately about wanting to design for plus sizes with many of them even offering to create a dress for me! I never thought I'd feel or experience this in my lifetime but I am! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I'm excited to see what the generation of fashion holds for ALL women, especially those of us that are excluded at times from the plus size range AND the conversation.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">You can find my Catherines red dress <b><a href="http://bit.ly/catherinesreddress" target="_blank">here</a></b> and it's on sale for $40, up to size 5X including petites. (I'm wearing a size 3X petite)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">You can follow those amazing F.I.T. fashion design students below on Instagram - hit them up if you need some custom lingerie or dresses:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Aura Alvarez: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aurahalvarez/" target="_blank">@aurahalvarez</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Breanna Childers: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bre_childers/" target="_blank">@bre_childers</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Laurel Yau: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/yauleru/" target="_blank">@yauleru</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Dorshelle Guillaume: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dorshelleguillaume/" target="_blank">@dorshelleguillaume</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Jessica Trusio: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jesstrusio/" target="_blank">@jesstrusio</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Sierra White: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/intimatelysierra/" target="_blank">@intimatelysierra</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Let's support and educate the next generation of fashion.</span></div>
Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-34973016459588501662018-12-05T13:43:00.000-05:002018-12-05T13:43:16.759-05:00Self Care During The Holiday Season: The Art of Listening<h3 style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Dealing with grief and the effects of it on my life has taught me many lessons. One of the greatest ones has been to <b><u>listen more, talk less</u></b>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">It's so easy to judge someone from your own experiences when they are confiding in you. One of my best friends reminded me of that this morning. We look at the situation from our own perspectives and how we would deal with it, not taking into account that not everyone deals with things in the same way. And we never know the full story; only what is told to us.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Our initial reactions is usually to start talking, offer advice and try to "fix" the problem. We mean well but honestly, ask yourself, have I really listened to the other person? Did they ask me for advice? Or did they just want to be heard?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Most times, it's the latter.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Trust me, when someone wants help, they will ask for it. But many times, many of us make the assumption that if someone confides in us, they want our help. And that is not a correct assumption nine times out of ten.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">For me, I yearn to be heard, especially now. I am far from perfect but know my shortcomings. I know where I need to be better and I know what I need to do. But I also yearn to be able to confide in someone and just be heard. Emotions are not easy to keep contained because the weight of them can sometimes be overwhelming. This is why letting go and talking about them feels so amazing. It makes our spirits lighter and it feels good to talk some things out loud and gain more clarity outside of our emotions.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">However, this is where you learn the hard way that you can't confide in everyone. And you also have to understand that people are human. Not everyone is a listener. Everyone plays a role in your life and not all are meant to be those who you can confide in.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">This holiday season will be a tough one for my family and I since it will be the first one without my niece Te</span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">á. For me, I will be completely honest and admit that I struggle but I also take it one day at a time. So for me to be able to lean on those I know I can confide in without them trying to "fix" me is such a welcomed thing. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">To be able to talk to someone who doesn't judge you and just listens and offers support is something that is invaluable. With the holiday season being tough for many, having someone to talk to is key. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I am also still in therapy, four years later and I am not ashamed to admit that publicly. Seeking professional help is one of the best things you can do for your self care. There is nothing wrong with doing so either. My therapist has saved my life. She has helped with me becoming more self aware and becoming a better person. She offers me the space to talk and not be judged. And she makes sense of things that I don't. It helps tremendously to be able to speak freely and have someone get it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">You don't have to understand what someone is going through to know the right thing to say. There is never the right thing to say. But we all have the capacity to love and support someone unconditionally without inserting yourself into the situation. It's not about what you would do but instead how can you help. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Most of the time, that help is just listening to the other person and supporting them.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">If you're feeling down or depressed this holiday season, just know you are not alone. And again, there's nothing wrong with seeking help and someone professional to talk to. Here's some ways to reach out if you are in need...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)</b></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Their network of crisis centers provide emotional support and guidance to people in distress and are also available via a chat service and a special hotline number for the hearing impaired: 1-800-799-4889.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA): 1-800-662-HELP (4357)</b></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">SAMHSA’s behavioral health treatment services locator is an easy and anonymous way to locate treatment facilities and other resources, such as support groups and counselors, to treat and manage depression.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">You can also call your health insurance provider and ask for some therapists in your area that accept your insurance. No insurance? Head to Google to see what groups and centers are in your area that can offer low-cost counseling or group meetings.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I, for one, will be listening more this holiday season and holding space for those who need it, as I know others are doing the same for me. I know I am not alone.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Be kind to yourself and always remember that self care matters. Love you all.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><br /></span>Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-46640998823891882892018-12-01T14:08:00.000-05:002018-12-01T14:08:25.645-05:00Why is Age Such a Big Deal? Asking For a Friend...<h3 style="text-align: center;">
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">"Some guy said to me: 'Don't you think you're too old to sing rock n' roll?' </span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I said: 'You'd better check with Mick Jagger.'" ~</span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"> Cher</span></h3>
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I was watching <a href="https://www.ellentube.com/" target="_blank">The Ellen Degeneres Show</a> this week and she <a href="https://www.ellentube.com/episode/day-5-of-12-days-julia-roberts-alessia-cara.html" target="_blank">talked about</a> how her age is always stated when she is mentioned in the media. And she wondered why the media felt the need to always mention her age instead of her accolades and achievements. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Hell, why not mention her job title or even her eye color? Nope, just her age. And for the record, she is 60, to which I was shocked to learn. She looks damn good.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I also noticed that when I typed in her name on Google, the first suggested search that came up was "Ellen Degeneres age" above her name. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Actress Julia Roberts, Ellen's guest during <a href="https://www.ellentube.com/episode/day-5-of-12-days-julia-roberts-alessia-cara.html" target="_blank">this show</a>, also expressed her annoyance with news outlets front-loading their stories with a celebrity’s age. It rarely happens with younger folks or even older men. Julia is 51.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">So why is a woman's age such a big deal?</span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>Suzanne Collins</b> was 46 when she wrote "The Hunger Games". </span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>E. L. James</b> was 46 when she wrote "Fifty Shades of Grey". </span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>Iris Apfel</b> is a major fashion icon at age 97, having been the face of Australian brand Blue Illusion at age 94 and was a visiting professor at University of Texas at Austin at the age of 90. </span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>Ann Dowd</b> earned her first Primetime Emmy Award nomination at the age of 61 for her role as Aunt Lydia on Hulu's The Handmaid's Tale.</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I recently saw <a href="https://www.glamour.com/story/actress-ann-dowd-on-what-its-like-not-finding-success-until-her-50s" target="_blank">Ann Dowd speak at Glamour's Women of the Year Summit</a> and was in awe. It was that day that I decided I wasn't going to hide my own age anymore and not be too hard on myself for not getting everything I wanted accomplished by a certain age.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">She spoke about getting her big break late in life (in her 50's) and how she learned to create her own timeline. We are fed this notion that we have to do all these things before a certain age because God forbid we do some amazing shit when we're "old".</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">What is "old" exactly? Just like size, age is often judged by its number and we are more than a number.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Getting back to me (yes, I was deflecting cause I fully admit this is hard)... My name is Marcy and I am 48 years old. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Yep, I'll be 50 in two years and I have been struggling with that BIG TIME. 50 seems like such a major milestone where you are now crossing over from young to old. It's that median mark where now you're like, damn, I am a half century old. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I don't feel 50. I mean, what is 50 supposed to feel like? Or look like?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I see other women who are my age or around my age and some look much older than me and some don't. I am blessed to not look my age and still get the dropped jaws when I tell people how old I am. So for me, it feels weird to get older because time seems to be flying yet I feel like I am standing still. Does that make sense?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I've also encountered ageism in the sense where I have been told I shouldn't do this or that, shouldn't wear this or that, and etc. I just want to know who created these rules and why should we follow them?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">So many questions and no answers. But I have learned that the answers to these questions are subjective. WE ARE WHO WE ARE. WE FEEL WHAT WE FEEL. And age should not have anything to do with that.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Sure, from a physical standpoint, things are changing. I have menopause to look forward to (NOT). I'm now wearing reading classes because after spending most of my life with almost perfect sight, I am now far-sighted. I suffer from arthritis and now have to get extra tests at the doctor to check for illnesses that happen after a certain age. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">However, from a mental perspective, while I feel like I am wiser and more self aware, I still feel youthful and free. I still feel like I can conquer the world and I admit I still love to get on a swing at the park or run around freely in an open space. Plus, I still have my hot mess moments where I sometimes question what the hell am I doing.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">The notion that you have your life together when you're a certain age is BS. Life is a journey where you are always figuring things out. I think as long as you are open to the possibilities and have committed to nourishing your relationship with yourself, it's okay to not have it together.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Nothing is perfect and your age should not be some indicator of life and where you should be. Self love is a lifelong journey that never stops and it shouldn't. The relationship you have with yourself is the most important one you will have in your life. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">So I remind myself daily of what <a href="https://www.glamour.com/story/actress-ann-dowd-on-what-its-like-not-finding-success-until-her-50s" target="_blank">Ann Dowd</a> said on that stage...</span><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Keep the love story alive; the love of what you do. </span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Celebrate the small wins. </span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Stay humble and </span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">grateful for every single day and everything that happens in that day. </span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">It will suit you and support you. Always remember the answer is within you because your heart and soul are your compass to life. </span><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Don't obsess on the How. Just remind yourself in the mirror that you are in charge of who you are. </span></i><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Yes, I am 48 but that doesn't define who I am by a long shot. Get ready 2019! I am fully prepared to do some more amazing shit going into Year 49. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">And maybe I should start thinking about what I will do to usher in Year 50. Turning a half century old is kind of cool, when you think about it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Read Ann Dowd's speech <b><a href="https://www.glamour.com/story/actress-ann-dowd-on-what-its-like-not-finding-success-until-her-50s" target="_blank">here</a></b> on Glamour's website. #BeInspired #ICertainlyWas</span><br />
<br />Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-32192208450116616512018-11-19T07:00:00.000-05:002018-11-20T09:43:16.388-05:00#FearlesslyMoving: Walking into Winter Like...<h3 style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I suffer from <a href="https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/osteoarthritis/symptoms-causes/syc-20351925" target="_blank">osteoarthritis</a> so my joints tend to get inflamed in extreme weather, hot or cold. But more so in the winter time. I experience joint pain, swelling and stiffness on almost a daily basis. So it's key for me to keep moving even though I just want to crawl back into bed and suffer in silence.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Once I am moving, the pain lessens and I feel better. Stretching is also key and a must for me. I don't have a gym membership because I fully admit I am still working on not being self-conscious in a gym. But I don't let that stop me from getting my exercise in because movement is a form of self care for me. So I choose to walk. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">That is what <a href="http://www.fearlesslyjustme.net/2018/05/starting-new-journey-of-fearlesslymoving.html" target="_blank">#FearlesslyMoving</a> is all about to me.</span></h4>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">To help motivate me to take that first painful step, I make sure what I am wearing is cute and comfy. I'm not a coat person since I grew up near the beach and have a thick skin when it comes to cold weather. I get hot very quick and don't like to feel weighted down by clothes. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Coats are bulky and I don't want to look like <a href="https://youtu.be/PKxsOlzuH0k" target="_blank">the kid from A Christmas Story</a>. But this year, I took a chance and am happy I did. Because at the end of the day, fashion is a form of self care for me as well.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">It has pockets and is a nice low hip length where it provides coverage in my booty area. The sleeves have a ribbed knit cuff that makes it stay in place so that no cold air sneaks in up my sleeves, which I hate. I usually think <a href="https://www.catherines.com/pretty-in-pink-puffer-coat/prd-315407?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link3:10292018" target="_blank">puffer coats</a> are the devil because I don't want to look larger but I took a chance on this because sometimes we have to get out of our heads and take a chance.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">And WOW! I looked in the mirror and loved how it looked on me. I always size up one size when buying coats in case I need extra room for a sweater or am wearing something bulky underneath. So I ordered a 4X in <a href="https://www.catherines.com/pretty-in-pink-puffer-coat/prd-315407?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link3:10292018" target="_blank">this coat</a> which equals a size 30/32 on Catherines' size chart. I'm glad I sized up because it fit perfectly and zipped up with no issue. If you are my size (26/28) and want extra room to wear layers underneath, I would get the 5X, to be honest, as coats typically do not offer stretch. For the record, my measurements are 57"-51"-68".</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">On this day of walking and exploring, I decided to wear <a href="https://www.catherines.com/eye-see-lola-sweater/prd-314801?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link2:10292018" target="_blank">a cozy sweater</a>, my absolute <a href="https://www.catherines.com/clothing/bottoms/jeans/P-11586?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link1:10292018" target="_blank">favorite jeans</a> in the world and <a href="https://www.catherines.com/good-soles-slouch-bootie-/prd-314821?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link4:10292018" target="_blank">some comfy booties</a>, all from <a href="https://www.catherines.com/" target="_blank">Catherines</a>.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I'm 5'6 but have short legs so if I buy regular length, I have to roll them up. If I want a cropped length, I get petite. I like that Catherines offers me those length options and also gives me size room to go up or down to get the fit right. In <a href="https://www.catherines.com/clothing/bottoms/jeans/P-11586?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link1:10292018" target="_blank">these jeans</a>, I'm wearing a size 24. Yup, you read right!!!! A size 24. If I want a boyfriend slouchy look, I size up to a 26 regular and roll them up.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I also have large 23" calves and <a href="https://www.catherines.com/clothing/bottoms/jeans/P-11586?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link1:10292018" target="_blank">these jeans</a> fit them nicely with no tightness. My upper arms measure 21" around and <a href="https://www.catherines.com/eye-see-lola-sweater/prd-314801?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link2:10292018" target="_blank">the sweater</a> fits well in that respect as well.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">The <a href="https://www.catherines.com/good-soles-slouch-bootie-/prd-314821?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link4:10292018" target="_blank">boots</a> are a true wide width where I felt like I had wiggle room AND they are super comfy. So I can wear double socks with no issue. I walked around all day in them and my feet did not hurt. I love how brown looks against pink and it ties in with the leopard bow on <a href="https://www.catherines.com/eye-see-lola-sweater/prd-314801?sid=PR:influencer:fearlesslyjustme:link2:10292018" target="_blank">my sweater</a>.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I also don't wear makeup when I am out walking around because I just want to be comfortable and natural. So yes, your eyes are not deceiving you. I am not wearing any makeup. Just some Vaseline lip therapy on my lips.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">There's so many great things to do in NYC during this time and I will be sharing some of my adventures as a plus size person in some future blog posts coming up. So be sure to check back here to see me <b><a href="https://www.instagram.com/fearlesslyjustme/" target="_blank">#FearlesslyMoving</a></b> and having fun while doing it.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">You can find her on Instagram <b><a href="https://www.instagram.com/photo_karizza/" target="_blank">here</a></b> and visit her website <a href="https://photokarizza.com/" target="_blank"><b>here</b></a>. I love to work with photographers who are body positive so expect more magic with myself and her in the future. I highly recommend her.</span></div>
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Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-26669781458211690732018-10-26T10:13:00.000-04:002018-10-26T10:13:25.631-04:00Easy Like Sunday Morning<h4 style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I talk a lot about my dad and how he spoke life into me on a daily basis growing up. I know I was blessed to have a dad like I did and not a day goes by, that I don't think of him. It's been 7 years since he died and he is always with me, even in my style.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I definitely got my love for camo from him. He never left the house without his camo jacket and hat. He loved combat boots and jeans. The first pair of jeans I wore as a plus size teen were courtesy of my dad's closet. I never gave those Levi's jeans back! And he didn't mind because I think he knew what they meant to me. When I wore those jeans, I felt normal and like everyone else. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Watching him in his camo and denim, I was inspired. People stared at him -- he loved his camo safari hat, which always drew attention. And my dad didn't care. That was his style and that was how he expressed himself. He wore what he loved. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">And by me wearing what I love every day of my life, I am honoring his legacy of being true to who I am and embracing that. My style has always been different from others. I love streetwear but I also love being girly. I love sequins, faux fur, pearls, lace and all that. So I always incorporate a feminine vibe into my streetwear like how I paired <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Ffloral-embroidered-camo-twill-jacket%2Fprd-350649%23color%2F0000007998" target="_blank">this camo jacket from Lane Bryant</a> and sneakers with this <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Ffaux-pearl-mesh-midi-skirt%2Fprd-352830%23color%2F0000008003" target="_blank">super girly mesh skirt with pearl details</a>.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">And <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Feasy-like-sunday-morning-graphic-tee%2Fprd-352371%23color%2F0000079106" target="_blank">the tee</a>... well, I had to have to it. That line "Easy Like Sunday Morning" is so meaningful to me. My dad loved the Commodores and "Easy" was one of his favorite songs to sing. I grew up in a house full of music but that song had so much meaning for me and hearing my dad's deep voice singing it, just puts a smile on my face and reminds me that it's okay to be different. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I want to be free to know the things I do are right... that may be a love song but for me, the song empowers me to live my best life. And that includes wearing <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Ffloral-embroidered-camo-twill-jacket%2Fprd-350649%23color%2F0000007998" target="_blank">camo</a>, <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Ffaux-pearl-mesh-midi-skirt%2Fprd-352830%23color%2F0000008003" target="_blank">a girly skirt </a>and <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Feasy-like-sunday-morning-graphic-tee%2Fprd-352371%23color%2F0000079106" target="_blank">graphic tees</a>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Life is short. wear what you love no matter your size or age. That's my daily mantra.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Graphic Tee: <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Feasy-like-sunday-morning-graphic-tee%2Fprd-352371%23color%2F0000079106" target="_blank">Lane Bryant</a></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Camo Jacket: <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Ffloral-embroidered-camo-twill-jacket%2Fprd-350649%23color%2F0000007998" target="_blank">Lane Bryant</a></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Skirt: <a href="https://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=d4dsSJrdFO8&mid=38549&murl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lanebryant.com%2Ffaux-pearl-mesh-midi-skirt%2Fprd-352830%23color%2F0000008003" target="_blank">Lane Bryant</a></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">**I'm wearing a size 26/28 in the Lane Bryant pieces.**</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">"Clothes aren't going to change the world. The women who wear them will." ~ Anne Klein</span></h2>
<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">I had an amazing call today with an up-and-coming designer named <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/LorenzaJamesbyElle" target="_blank">Elle Dove</a> who creates clothing for ALL sizes. Now when I say ALL, I truly mean all. She wants to dress everyone and her passion gives me hope that the fashion industry, including major brands, will see the importance of fashion for everyone. Here's an interview I did with her a few months ago for PLUS Model Magazine <b><a href="https://www.plus-model-mag.com/2018/05/5-questions-with-plus-size-fashion-designer-elle-dove-on-size-diversity-creating-art-more/" target="_blank">here</a></b>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">When discussing why she chose certain women to be her brand ambassadors (including me!), she said to me </span><i style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-weight: bold;">"The woman is the one who sells the clothing, not the brand." </i><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">She explained in detail how she does not look at just numbers but who your followers are and what your platform stands for.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">And that resonated with me so deeply because it is so true and the core of what an influencer should be. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">I think the industry has lost its way a bit in that instance with major brands:</span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Choosing only to offer up to a certain size or calling it "size inclusive" but stopping at a size 3X/24.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Using influencers whose bodies fit a certain beauty ideal that is acceptable to society (hourglass and pear shapes under a size 24).</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">So as someone who is often outsized within my own fashion industry, </span><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">I have learned over the years that shopping is not always fun and is honestly a sport. And I am a repeat gold medal winner. I constantly have "make it work" moments with Tim Gunn's voice in my ear.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">One of the things I have learned is to <b>#IgnoreTheSizeTag</b>. Yup, that's going to be my new hashtag going forward.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Sizing is so inconsistent across the board, even in straight sizes! I hate to try on clothes and would love to just buy off the rack but that is not just possible, especially when you're plus size. Once I accepted this and adapted, I have become savvy as knowing what fits me.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I admit, I used to bypass brands that only went up to a size 24. I naturally thought I could not fit into anything they sold. I was also programmed to always reach for the larger size and have learned to not do that anymore. Baggy clothes do not hide the plus body. For me, it made me look bigger. Sure, I was hiding my rolls and such. But I looked as if I was wearing a tent. Not cute.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">There is no magical way to hide that you're fat so why not dress the best way you can and feel good about yourself? That has been an important part of my self love and acceptance journey.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Life is short so why should I wait to wear what I want? Why should I have to lose weight to look fabulous and show off my style? The time is NOW.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">One of my favorite brands to shop that stops at a size 24 is <a href="http://www.citychiconline.com/" target="_blank">City Chic</a>. Nine times out of ten, I have been able to fit into their size XXL, which is a 24. For the record, I usually wear a size 26 on top and a 28 on bottom. My measurements are 55-53-68.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Their strapless dresses are everything! They have piping and an adhesive band around the top part (similar to what you see in strapless bras) so it stays in place. When I finally got the courage to let my wings be free and wear strapless dresses, <a href="http://www.citychiconline.com/" target="_blank">City Chic</a> was the first brand I wore.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">The first jumpsuit I ever tried was from <a href="http://www.citychiconline.com/" target="_blank">City Chic</a> and it changed my mind on jumpsuits forever.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I think that we have been fed so much negative rules and criticisms for most of our lives that it takes time to reprogram our thoughts. But I still live by that mantra "<b><i>Change your mindset, change your life</i></b>." It didn't happen overnight but I started out with one body part: my arms. And then once I took that step, it got easier to continue to push myself out of my comfort zone and not be afraid to show my body in public and stop covering up.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><a href="http://www.citychiconline.com/" target="_blank">City Chic</a> has been one of those brands that has been a part of my self love journey. While I do think they should consider expanding their sizing to 32, I still celebrate them for what they do get right... the fit! They truly ensure that their clothing fits a curvy, plus body that has extra in some places. I also check the fabric and if I see spandex or elastane in it, that means it has some stretch. Yes!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">The biggest shopping lesson I have learned over the years is to shop by fit and my measurements. Even if the size tag does not align with what size I am. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Here's what I have my eye on at the moment from <a href="http://www.citychiconline.com/" target="_blank">City Chic</a>:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Just an FYI, this is not a sponsored post and <a href="http://www.citychiconline.com/" target="_blank">City Chic</a> has no idea of my love for them. Sometimes we have to show our support for free because that's how we not only build relationships that can lead to a profitable future but also to spread the word. Our voices must be heard in order to make change and sometimes complaining is not enough. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">If you love what I have to say regarding fashion, fit and style for the size 20+ woman and you're in or near the Atlanta area, come hear me speak this weekend at the <a href="http://tcfstyleexpo.com/" target="_blank">TCF Style Expo</a>! I'm on an amazing panel of incredible women talking to this very topic. The panel will be moderated by Alicia Young of </span><a href="https://apyoungblog.com/" style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;" target="_blank">AP Young Blog</a><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">, who is over a size 24. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">You can still get tickets to the TCF Style Expo <b><u><a href="http://tcfstyleexpo.com/register-now/" target="_blank">here</a></u></b>. Would love to see you!</span></div>
Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063275319434112588.post-54676576039600418002018-05-21T08:00:00.000-04:002018-05-21T08:00:13.823-04:00Starting a New Journey of #FearlesslyMoving<h2 style="text-align: center;">
Movement for me means being in peace while allowing myself to let go, be in the moment and feel free.</h2>
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I have been kicking off my blog posts with quotes for over 10 years but today's post starts with a quote of my own.</div>
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Lately, I have been giving lots of thought to movement. Not just physical movement but overall movement within life. I believe that the mind, body and spirit are one. So if one is not right, it throws off the whole trinity. For me, I have been spending so much time getting my mind and spirit right that I neglected my body. And this made me realize that's why my MBS trinity was not at 100%.</div>
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I'm always tired or stressed. I work a lot and put pressure on myself to be the best I can be. I push myself beyond limits and sometimes it takes a toll on me physically. I haven't felt inner peace in a really long time and at this point of my life, I crave it. I need it. </div>
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How can I inspire others and keep going, if I don't have that inner peace and my spirit tank on full? Life is draining enough and if you don't refill your tank regularly, how are you supposed to be at the top of your game?</div>
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So I started looking into movement in general. I don't aspire to lose weight and be some "Before and After" picture. In my opinion, weight loss is not the way to happiness because your Body is a part of that MBS trinity and not on its own. You can lose weight but if your mind and spirit ain't right... well, you get the drift.</div>
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I worked too hard to love myself as I am and in all honesty, my size has nothing to do with my MBS not being on point. It has to do with my inner health and how I choose to use my energy. </div>
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Movement can be an incredible thing. For me, I love to walk and one day, I want to get strong enough to jog again because running is a form of movement that truly lets you be in the moment and feel free of the world around you. </div>
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I have arthritis in both knees and my right ankle so I tend to get stiff a lot and have chronic pain. However, the irony of that is the more I move, the less pain I feel.<br />
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This is when I decided that I needed more movement in my life. I need to make time for myself and invest in myself and my MBS. If I can't show up for myself, how am I supposed to show up for others in my life?</div>
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I'm not a gym girl right now because I am still working on not being self-conscious in that space. Yes, I am confident and love myself but I am not perfect. I'm human and I am still working on not noticing the stares or whispers. </div>
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However, I have the world before me, ready for me to take my first step and just start moving. Movement can be medicine for the MBS... I learned this from a friend of mine who I admire greatly.<br />
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Deb Malkin is someone I have known for years, who is simply amazing. Her Instagram page <a href="https://www.instagram.com/movewithdeb/" target="_blank">Move With Deb</a> was what inspired me to look more into movement.</div>
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Movement can be anything, to be honest. It doesn't have to be just exercising. Deb recently posted about Movement Permaculture, which was a way for her and her partner to work on their garden in a fun way. It encouraged movement while they plant and grow things to sustain them in their lives.</div>
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This led me to introducing movement in my life via house chores, like dancing as I sweep and mop, squatting while I wash dishes or even lifting heavy things around the house as I clean. I also make it a habit to turn on the pedometer on my phone while I am in the supermarket and walk around it a few times. You can easily do a mile that way while shopping for groceries.<br />
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Find what moves you and incorporate that into your every day life.... this is what my goal right now is.<br />
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I actually take notes from Deb's IG page, especially the wisdom she offers her readers via comments about movement... Here's a few that resonated with me:<br />
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"Just thinking about movement in a whole body, throughout the day framework has shifted my whole world. It helps me feel so much more engaged in my everyday life and empowered in my body."<br />
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"Movement is a bigger category than fitness. There's a lot we can do to help get more flexible, have more strength and stamina in our everyday life. Going to the gym can be fun but that's just a tiny portion of our week. We have a body the rest of the time too and not to say we should obsess about fitness, it's more of a reframe of movement that is nourishing our cells as being available all the time. It's like the opposite of diet culture to me."<br />
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With that said, starting today, my journey of <b><i>Fearlessly Moving</i></b> will be a reality. My current goal is to feel empowered in my body again and as Deb said, more engaged in my every day life. And I'll see where this journey takes me.<br />
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You can follow my journey here on the blog and on social media with the hashtag <b>#FearlesslyMoving</b>. I plan to use this blog as a way to be accountable for myself and not slack off on my movement goals. And I hope I can inspire some of you to move along with me.<br />
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Because movement can be body liberation too! Having more mobility is freeing and honestly, after a day of walking and moving, I feel like a superheroine. And I want to feel like that daily. Movement can be joyful and I can't wait to share this journey with all of you.<br />
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Click <b><a href="https://www.instagram.com/fearlesslyjustme/" target="_blank">here</a></b> to follow me on Instagram to stay up-to-date with my <b>#FearlesslyMoving</b> journey.<br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">A week ago, I got back from Atlanta where I was honored for an award for empowering and inspiring others through my work. Before that, I was in Cancun, Mexico for a fit modeling gig. And I recently got signed to State Management as a size 26+ fit model. I'm sitting here, as I type this, still in shock that this is my life.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">The last few months have been hectic with lots of wonderful things happening, which remind me that when you put yourself out there in the world, stay open to the possibilities and trust in where your journey takes you, magical things can happen.</span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">At one point in my life, I would ask over and over again, "Why me?" I felt like I couldn't catch a break and bad things were happening back to back. I thought to myself, "How much more can I take before I crumble?" Well, the answer to that was, I can take A LOT and going through that time in my life tested my strength and showed me what a fierce warrior I was.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I kicked off 2018 with two video opportunities, both denim features, for <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/GlamourMag" target="_blank">Glamour Magazine</a> and <a href="https://www.refinery29.com/" target="_blank">Refinery 29</a>. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">You can view the Refinery29 video <b><a href="http://a.msn.com/09/en-us/AAvw1HR?ocid=st" target="_blank">here</a></b>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">While both videos were about showing different bodies wearing jeans, the Glamour one was a hit with over 3 million views where we are all wearing the same jeans from Old Navy. In the <a href="https://www.refinery29.com/" target="_blank">Refinery29</a> video, it was all about our favorite jeans and why.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">What I loved the most about both videos is that it not only allowed me to be seen but also it gave me the platform to speak to women about loving themselves and wearing what they love.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Life is taking me on this path where I have not only become an advocate for women over a size 24 but also, becoming someone whose story is inspiring all people and not just plus size women. And it humbles me to no end.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">We all given a voice and we choose how to use it. I haven't always spoken up but now I know better.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I'm now officially a size 28 fit model for Mexican comtemporary brand <a href="http://www.generose.mx/" target="_blank">Generose</a> and have already worked with <a href="https://www.universalstandard.com/" target="_blank">Universal Standard</a> to fit their extended sizes collection. Being a fit model has taught me that change is possible and I see the shift happening in the industry. However, I have to speak up and be an advocate for those women in these spaces too.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I'm starting to see that life is an exciting ride and I am embracing that now, more than ever.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">So, yes, life doesn't always go as planned but it all works out in the end. I am proof of that.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Next up, I shot another <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/GlamourMag" target="_blank">Glamour Magazine</a> video coming soon, heading back to Cancun for more fittings and helping with an event happening there in the fall, prepping for <a href="http://www.fffweek.com/" target="_blank">Full Figured Fashion Week</a> and pitching for more public speaking gigs. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Life is good, even if it hasn't gone the way I planned. Stay tuned!</span>Marcyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06161128116630648835noreply@blogger.com2